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"marrige beatrice and frederick state frederick samuel bellamy as father."

Okay, so you knew already that Frances Beatrice Bellamy married George Ducker, and I spent time finding the marriage, by finding her in the 1901 census, for nothing?

Oh well. My fault for not looking at your tree, I suppose. Don't know why you couldn't have just put the info in the thread, since it's apparently in your tree, but there you are.

Something here may help.

"thanx for help 2 date by the way my father has been in conversation with a couple of people on another site www.familytreeforum.com and they all have differnt theroys was wondering if you would like to have a look on there as all the info is there,"

How fascinating. I guess I may as well look and find that I have completely wasted my time ...

Yup, that was fascinating.

I'm not sure that I've ever felt that my time was exploited so badly.

Nice that I was given credit for that last bit when it was posted at the other place too ... not.

kathryn i apologise i do not no the rules on this site i did ask if you would come over to FTF as the information you have found is fantastic im not quite sure how i have offended you as your information along with others will help sort this mess out i hope you will continue to help plus you have come up with information i as i said my father has all the paper work

My instinct is to delete every last pixel of it.

How you have offended me is by wasting my time, having me try to figure out your cryptic postings, me searching around in databases, all the while a group of people at another website were doing exactly the same thing for your father, who then posted some of my work at that other website ... without so much as giving me credit for the work.

These are human beings here, Simon and Rob. With lives. And other things to do with our time than waste it.

Nothing to do with the rules of this site or that site. Basic common ordinary good manners.

again i apologise i did ask you to come over to that site as you had very good info i really do appreciate what you have done i did not think it would upset you i was only showing my father what you had found as we are after all two people looking for the same answer i hope we can resolve this

Thing is Simon, you really should have added to your original thread from last week then everyone would have seen all the information found on this so far.

If you start a new thread you should make people aware what has been found to date otherwise they will spend their time duplicating what you already had.

I have not been so well last few days so not on here, otherwise Id have noticed what was happening and added a note to your new thread before people had spent so much time duplicating info.

You can appreciate that some of the info takes literally hours to sort out so it can be upsetting to find that someone else has already covered that ground.

Anyway, you will be aware of this in the future :) You may want to look at the tips for newbies thread on Tips Board to help your research.

will do sorry i did not no how to do this i was and still am new lol again i have apologised innocent mistake no deceit intended