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WHY POST AND THEN NOT RETURN TO YOUR THREAD

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SylviaInCanada

SylviaInCanada Report 1 Dec 2008 19:50

Hi

Julie in Derbyshire ...... I understand what you mean.

I posted a thread almost 18 months ago asking if anyone could tell me how to find some information in a newspaper 'cos the local paper couldn't read their own microfiches (!!) ............. yep, we helpers still get stuck ourselves!!

Someone responded that the best place was a Central Newspaper Archives in Preston (???), that they went there every few months, and they would do the look up for me. I sent all the information .... and have still not heard anything!

I think what happens with some of the people who offer this kind of help, or who offer the lookups like you asked for, is that they get swamped, and lose the "little piece of paper"



Ann

Rootsuk huh??? lol!!!




sylvia

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 1 Dec 2008 18:37

I know Linda - I did feel a right pillock after - I'm sure there must be a place in New Zealand called Rootsuk!!!

Linda G

Linda G Report 1 Dec 2008 18:01

Rootsuk....lol


Linda

Julia

Julia Report 1 Dec 2008 17:22

Please,please, - I like many others have been experiencing trouble on here today, so don't think I have posted and ran.
Julie with love hearts,or are they urns - please forgive - you may have misinterprated what I said. I PM'd the persons to ask if they were still doing research as I had not seen them on the boards for a while. They PM'd me back saying yes they still did,and what did I need help with. It wasn't,on my behalf, a "cold call" as you might call it
Many thanks to all
Julia in Derbyshire

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 1 Dec 2008 14:28

fair enough - just be glad you don't live in Rootsuk!!!!!!

Julie

Julie Report 1 Dec 2008 13:50

Ann of Green Gables

Request review
Today at 12:36
an no one is going to do any head biting on this thread or I shall delete it!!!!!
_______________

That's ok by me i've already had 1 & don't think i could manage 2 lol

Julie

Julie Report 1 Dec 2008 13:49

Hi Julia in Derbyshire

Can just reply to a question in your post re PM

I know that there were/are a few that offer to do look up do say no PM's...That might be why you never got a reply

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 1 Dec 2008 13:45

had a good laugh on here today - needed one - someone posted looking for a relative - from Rootsuk they said - I thought to myself, that's a strange place, probably in New Zealand. Turns out they meant Roots UK - did feel such a pillock!!!

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 1 Dec 2008 13:38

what colour is yours then? I'm on Genes/za

Irish Gel

Irish Gel Report 1 Dec 2008 13:25

Ann of Green Gable...thanks for answering me...my box isnt yellow but I got the chap with the hat and can now see what you mean......brilliant and thanks...

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 1 Dec 2008 13:16

I'm not always good believe me - I posted a really crass posting on a thread last night thinking I was on a thread looking for ancient rellies - they were in fact living - I have apologised by pm and on the thread, but nothing will stop me feeling absolutely rotten today

Julia

Julia Report 1 Dec 2008 12:47

Thanks Anne, have encountered your good works on here. My subject is not easy to put into words. without seeming ungrateful. But I meant it in the best possible way
See you Babes
Julia in Derbyshire

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 1 Dec 2008 12:36

an no one is going to do any head biting on this thread or I shall delete it!!!!!

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 1 Dec 2008 12:36

fair enough Julia - people should not offer to do research if they are not going to live up to their promise - I really am not much good at it myself, drop lucky on the Mormon LDS site now and again, but just love doing it!!!

Julia

Julia Report 1 Dec 2008 10:41

Whilst I agree wholeheartedly with you all in what you have said on this subject, can I please mention another side to this coin, or bugbear, without getting my head bitten off, as I am sticking my neck out here.
If I put up an "ask", I regularly return to the post to see if I have any replies, even if I have had to go out for a couple of hours, and always say please and thank you, as is only polite.

But, I have twice answered threads where people have offered to look in local archives offices on their next visit to town, only to never hear from them again. I have had someone in Germany offer to look at things there for me, but again, never had as much as an acknowledgement of receipt of the information I have given.
But the one that surprised me most of all was a person/s, well known on these boards, who, after I sent a PM asking if they were still doing look-ups, and me not taking it for granted that they did,and then giving them all the information I had, have completely ignored my request, despite their advertising that they are bored and want to do look-ups for people.
I am not pointing the finger at anybody, but I can assure everyone who is reading this, that I am extremely grateful for any help I get. It can be equally frustrating, if you are relying on someones very kind offer, only to have it ignored.
Julia in Derbyshire

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 1 Dec 2008 10:40

there is a yellow box on the left - a man in it with a black top hat on - it says "My Threads", Advanced Search, my bookmarks, and bookmark this. Use "bookmark this" if you see something that you would like to refer back to, but it is something you are not adding to.

Ann

Irish Gel

Irish Gel Report 1 Dec 2008 10:32

I cant see any yellow box on my page!!!! how simple would that be if I could...I trawl through loads of questions before I get to the one I wrote ...I get way layed cos other requests are interesting.....like many others I would like to say thanks you all for the help you have given in the past to me.

Mel Fairy Godmother

Mel Fairy Godmother Report 1 Dec 2008 10:19

When first putting things on the TTF boards I never realised that you had to keep clicking on your page to see if you had any answers. Perhaps this is what is happening to newbies! If they have the page up on their pc and think that any replies are going to come up automaticly they are mistaken. You either have to click on the page at the bottom of the page or go back to your thread through the yellow box as Ann explained earlier on this thread.

Mel

Linda G

Linda G Report 1 Dec 2008 09:57

Nudge Jay

Linda

snowfairy

snowfairy Report 1 Dec 2008 09:47

Hi, Its like this ,you post a thread sit and wait,noone answers so you go to the loo ,come back wait a bit,go and get lunch, come back,then see an answer,so write back ,nothing, you start to think your thread must be uninteresting and back away.I posted one on Saturday and this happened but I did answer twice and am still waiting.....shall I nudge or what? Jay