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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 10:34

Frederick C Eldridge
Gender Male
Marital Status Widow
Birth Date 23 Nov 1897
Residence Year 1939
Address 1
Residence Place Malling, Kent, England
Occupation Admiralty Stores Clerk
Schedule Number 92
Sub Schedule Number 2
Enumeration District DJML
Registration district 48/1
Household Members
Name Age
Frederick A Eldridge
Frederick C Eldridge

Frederick Charles Eldridge was born in Sittingbourne, Kent

Assuming the DOB on the 1939 is correct, he died in Greenwich reg.

Frederick Charles Eldridge
Death Age 85
Birth Date 23 Nov 1897
Registration Date Jun 1983
Registration district Greenwich
Inferred County Greater London
Volume 12
Page 0891

A Frederick Eldridge was cremated at Eltham Crematorium, Greenwich on 12 Sep 1983 having died 5 Sep at Queen Mary's Hospital, Sidcup. The register scan says he was married, lived in Wilmington, and the person who arranged the cremation was Maude Eldridge at the same address.

So 3 questions -
Who was the wife he married after 1911 & had died before 29 Sep 1939?
Is the cremation for the same man?
If so, who is Maude?

Its probably staring me in the face!

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2018 10:49

could this be Frederick A

Name: Frederick Albert Eldridge
Death Date: 5 Apr 1951
Death Place: Kent, England
Probate Date: 2 May 1951
Registry: London, England
of Mount Pleasant, New Hythe Lane .Larkfield admin 2.5.1951 to Frederick Charles Eldridge civil servant effects £205.8.9d

Wilmington and Larkfield are about 23 miles apart

Dea

Dea Report 29 Jul 2018 10:51

There is this marriage ?

Marriages Sep 1928 (>99%)
Eldridge Frederick C Milner Medway 2a 2252 Scan available - click to view
Milner Alice Eldridge Medway 2a 2252 Scan available - click to view

Can't see a death for Alice yet?

Dea x

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 10:53

Shirley - Yes, that would be Frederick C's father.

Actually, I think the Frederick Eldridge who was cremated could have been unrelated this guy

FREDERICK
Last name ELDRIDGE
Gender Male
Birth day 25
Birth month 4
Birth year 1907
Death quarter 3
Death year 1983
District Bexley
County Kent
Volume 11
Page 0359

Its a better fit to a Sept death in Sidcup.

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2018 10:54

so they are father and son
ame: Frederick Albert Eldridge
Age in 1911: 40
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1871
Relation to Head: Head
Gender: Male
Birth Place: Charing, Kent
Civil Parish: Headcorn
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County/Island: Kent
Country: England
Street address: Mill Bank, Maidstone Road, Headcorn, Kent
Marital Status: Married
Occupation: Police Constable
Registration district: Hollingbourne
Registration District Number: 52
Sub-registration district: Headcorn
ED, institution, or vessel: 4
Household schedule number: 31
Piece: 4181
Household Members:
Name Age
Frederick Albert Eldridge 40
Charlotte Elizabeth Eldridge 39
Frederick Charles Eldridge 13
married 14 years and only i child born

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2018 10:55

Name: Frederick Albert Eldridge
Registration Year: 1896
Registration Quarter: Apr-May-Jun
Registration district: Milton
Parishes for this Registration District: View Ecclesiastical Parishes associated with this Registration District
Inferred County: Kent
Volume: 2a
Page: 1622
Records on Page:
Name
Charlotte Elizabeth Allen

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 10:56

The Medway marriage is a possibility, particularly as he was an Admiralty Stores Clerk. He possibly worked at the Chatham Dockyards.

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 10:58

Shirley, Frederick A & Charlotte married 15 Apr 1896, St Michael's, Sittingbourne.
Witnesses Fred: Chas. Allen & Martha Ann Allen, Charlotte's brother & sister.

ErikaH

ErikaH Report 29 Jul 2018 11:00

A tree on Ancestry has all the details you give, but nothing extra

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 11:02

Erika, it probably is mine :-D

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2018 11:06

Name: Charlotte Elizabeth Eldridge
Death Date: 20 Mar 1930
Death Place: Kent, England
Probate Date: 2 Jul 1930
Registry: London, England
Charlotte Elizabeth Eldridge of Mount Pleasant New Hythe Larkfield Kent.(wife of Frederick Albert Eldridge)died 20.3.1930 at Harrow Road Infirmary,Paddington Middlesex probate to Frederick Albert Eldridge police pensioner effects £418.10.9d

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2018 11:10

1901 census
Name: Frederick C Eldredge
Age: 3
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1898
Relation to Head: Nephew
Gender: Male
Birth Place: Sittingbourne, Kent, England
Civil Parish: Sittingbourne
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Ecclesiastical parish: Sittingbourne St Michaels
Town: Sittingbourne
County/Island: Kent
Country: England
Street address:

Occupation:

Condition as to marriage:

Education:

Employment status:

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Registration district: Milton
Sub-registration district: Milton
ED, institution, or vessel: 39
Neighbors:
Piece: 812
Folio: 69
Page Number: 7
Household schedule number: 47
Household Members:
Name Age
Thomas A Hampshire 28
Frances E Hampshire 24
Frederick C Eldredge 3

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 11:10

Regarding the Eldridge/Milner marriage.

There is this 1939 entry, but she says she's married.

Eldridge Household (3 People)
2 Gordon Road , Gillingham M.B., Kent, England


FIRST NAME(S) LAST NAME(S) DOB SEX OCCUPATION MARITAL STATUS SCHEDULE SCHEDULE SUB NUMBER
Alice Eldridge 16 Jun 1902 Female Unpaid Domestic Duties Married 221 1
Sorry, this record is officially closed. Check if you can open a closed record.
Sorry, this record is officially closed. Check if you can open a closed record.

Eldridge/Milner children born 1931 & 1937.

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2018 11:16

there is another of the same name living in woolwich with a wife ivy Maud

Name: Frederick Charles Eldridge
Year: 1932
County or Borough: Newham
Ward or Division/Constituency: Woolwich
Street address: 23 New Road

could be the Greenwich death

its this marriage

Marriages Mar 1926
Eldridge Frederick C Williams Woolwich 1d 1427
Williams Ivy M Eldridge Woolwich 1d 1427


would say the greenwich death is him ad his wife probably used her second name

Name: Ivy Maude Eldridge >>>>>>
Year: 1934
County or Borough: Newham
Ward or Division/Constituency: Woolwich

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 11:20

Heck of coincidence if they had the same dob!

Could Ivy be Ivy Maude?

Frederick Charles Eldridge
Residence Year: 1939
Residence Place: Dartford, Kent, England
Description: Dartford Constituency: Register of Electors

Harrow Manor Way, Abbey Wood/Erith

Eldridge Household (4 People)
23 Abbey Road , Erith M.B., Kent, England


FIRST NAME(S) LAST NAME(S) DOB SEX OCCUPATION MARITAL STATUS SCHEDULE SCHEDULE SUB NUMBER
Ivy M Eldridge 21 Nov 1903 Female Unpaid Dom Duties Married 282 2
Frederick C Eldridge 27 May 1900 Male Retail Shop Keeper ?roc & Prov Married 282 1
Sorry, this record is officially closed. Check if you can open a closed record.
Sorry, this record is officially closed. Check if you can open a closed record.

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2018 11:29

well someone living in that area the nearest crem would be Sidcup

my parents lived in Charlton and died in the Greenwich reg district The choice was either Sidcup or Eltham for the cremations and Eltham was the chosen one

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 11:35

As you say, its a toss up between Eltham & Sidcup. Where we live it's a choice between Eltham & Bluebell Hill although there has been planning permission for one closer to Gravesend. Not sure if that's up & running yet.

Would you agree the Sep cremation isn't for my Frederick Charles Eldridge?

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 29 Jul 2018 11:41

but the death for the right birthdate could still be your man and he was in hospital in greenwich when he died

for instance my BIL lived in Herne Bay Kent and had a main aorta aneurism . Canterbury hospital didnt have the expertise to do the operation and he was transferred to Miller hospital in greenwich where he sadly died
( hospital no longer there )
he was brought back to Herne Bay in Kent for burial

i would be inclined to get that death cert

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 29 Jul 2018 11:44

Good idea. He's close enough to the main branch to warrant it.
Thank you for your help. :-)

Dea

Dea Report 29 Jul 2018 11:47

Looks like Alice Milner may also have been from a 'Police family' ?

Maybe that's how they met?


1911 England, Wales & Scotland Census Transcription
5 Police Quarters Upnor, Friendsbury Extra, Kent, England

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Household Members
First name(s) Last name Relationship Marital status Sex Age Birth year Birth place Occupation
Joseph Milner Head Married Male 43 1868 Aberdeenshire Old Rain Police Constable
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Alice Milner Wife Married Female 35 1876 Kent Gillingham -
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Albert Edward Milner Son - Male 11 1900 Kent Gillingham School
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Alice Milner Daughter - Female 8 1903 Kent Gillingham -
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John Milner Son - Male 5 1906 Kent Gillingham -
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Grace Hannah Milner Daughter - Female 2 1909 Kent Frindsbury -

IF this is the same one that is !!....

Dea x