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i cant find this woman in the census before she got married . she was born 1838 in holywell flintshire wales and married in 1862 i have her in all census 1871 and later but not before can anyone help

1841 Wales Census about Mary Carlman Name: Mary Carlman Age: 4 Estimated birth year: abt 1837 Gender: Female Where born: Flintshire, Wales Civil parish: Holywell Hundred: Holywell County/Island: Flintshire Country: Wales Street address: View image Occupation: View image Registration district: Holywell Sub-registration district: Holywell Neighbors: View others on page Household Members: Name Name Ann Carlman 40 Ann Carlman 6 John Carlman 8 Mary Carlman 4 Robert Carlman 15 Roberts Carlman 40 Thomas Carlman 4 Mo

1851 just wondering about this entry Name: Mary Portman Age: 13 Estimated birth year: abt 1838 Relation: Daughter Father's name: Robert Mother's name: Ann Gender: Female Where born: Holywell, Flintshire, Wales Civil Parish or Township: Holywell Ecclesiastical parish: Holywell County/Island: Flintshire Country: Wales Street address: View image Condition as to marriage: View image Occupation: View image Disability: View image Registration district: Holywell Sub-registration district: Whitford ED, institution, or vessel: 1h Neighbors: View others on page Household schedule number: 78 Household Members: Name Age Ann Portman 53 Ann Portman 15 Jane Portman 6 John Portman 17 Mary Portman 13 Robert Portman 52 Thomas Portman 10 I think this is the right family but image is faint. Could really do with a second opinion Maureen

thanks jim and glitter babe just found her married in 1861

glitter baby on lookming at census looks like cartman on page thanks