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I wonder if someone could help me please, I've been searching for Mary Jane Rhoades in the 3 census forms of 1881, 1891 & 1901 but can't find her. She was born in 1859 in Kirton in Lindsey, Lincolnshire her mum and dad were called William and Elizabeth, I can find her with her family in the 1861 census when she was 2 and in 1871 when she was 12, at first I thought she might have died somewhere between 1871 and 1881 but I have now know for certain she had a child Tom Andrew in 1879 (father unknown) any help would be appreciated.. thanks, Linda

Have you looked for a marriage for her?

Sam x

Hi Sam, I did look under the name that I have for her but nothing came up and if she did get married and not knowing what her married name was I got stuck

On the Freebmd that you have seen Margaret did any of them say that she came from Kirton?
thanks, Linda

Is this Mary's son in 1891

IName: Tom A Rhoades
Age: 12
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1879
Relation: Grandson
Gender: Male
Where born: Kirton in Lindsey, Lincolnshire, England

Civil Parish: Kirton in Lindsey
Ecclesiastical parish: Kirton in Lindsey
Town: Kirton in Lindsey
County/Island: Lincolnshire
Country: England

Street address:

Occupation:

Condition as to marriage:

Education:

Employment status: View Image

Registration district: Glanford Brigg
Sub-registration district: Brigg
ED, institution, or vessel: 3
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members: Name Age
Bessey Rhoades 61
Harry Rhoades 9 (grandson)
Tom A Rhoades 12 (grandson)
William Rhoades 69
Source Citation: Class: RG12; Piece: 2625; Folio 34; Page 3; GSU roll: 6097735.
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There's this on the 1881
Name: William Rhodes
Age: 58
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1823
Relation: Head
Spouse's Name: Elizabeth
Gender: Male
Where born: Hemingby, Lincoln, England

Civil Parish: Kirton in Lindsey
County/Island: Lincolnshire
Country: England

Condition as to marriage: Married
Education:

Employment status: View Image
Occupation: Labourer

Registration district: Glanford Brigg
Sub-registration district: Brigg
ED, institution, or vessel: 3
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members: Name Age
Elizabeth Rhodes 51
Harriet Rhodes 13
Tom A. Rhodes 2 (grandson)
William Rhodes 58
Source Citation: Class: RG11; Piece: 3283; Folio: 46; Page: 16; Line: ; GSU roll: 1341783.
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Yes Jean, that's her son, but I can't find her after he was born, It's certainly her son as I have his birth certificate and she is named as his mother with father unknown and she was also classed as a "domestic servant" in 1879 when Tom was born

Possible marriage in 1880,
View Record Name Year of Registration Quarter of Registration Spouse's Surname District County View Image

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Mary Barlow 1880 Oct-Nov-Dec Gainsborough Lincolnshire, Nottinghamshire
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John Horry 1880 Oct-Nov-Dec Gainsborough Lincolnshire, Nottinghamshire
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William Pitchfork 1880 Oct-Nov-Dec Gainsborough Lincolnshire, Nottinghamshire
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Mary Jane Roades 1880 Oct-Nov-Dec Gainsborough Lincolnshire, Nottinghamshire

1881 could fit with the 1880 marriage

Name: Mary J. Horry
Age: 22
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1859
Relation: Wife
Spouse's Name: John
Gender: Female
Where born: Kirton Lindsey, Lincoln, England

Civil Parish: Gainsborough
County/Island: Lincolnshire
Country: England

Street address: No 19 Waterworks St
Condition as to marriage: Married
Education:

Employment status: View Image

Registration district: Gainsborough
Sub-registration district: Gainsborough
ED, institution, or vessel: 7a
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members: Name Age
John Horry 25
John W. Horry
Mary J. Horry 22

thank you Jean and Glitter baby, this is beginning to look right, so if it is her I wonder why once she got married she didn't look after her son Tom