Genealogy Chat

Hi thank you to both of you.
I will order that one as well Richard. It always amazes me how others can see what one can't find. I have trawled and trawled through the birth and deaths maybe i was trying too hard. Thank you again much appreciated.

Selena i will add that to my possibles Thank you.

Just thought I would put this up in case it's a relative

Births Dec 1846
AYERS Damarus Blake Headington 16 62

Selena

Rhoda Stockwell's death:

Deaths Mar 1925
Stockwell Rhoda 69 Newbury 2c 327

Thanks very much Richard. I will send for that now.
Thanks again.......

Now just need to find when she died......

Well this would be the ref for her birth cert (different spelling on the surname!):

Births Mar 1856
AYRES Rhoda Hungerford 2c 228

So if the below found by Margret is the one i am looking for then there should be a birth cert record somewhere???? or is this wishful thinking : -(

There's this Rhoda Ayers on BVRI but father's name is Damias instead of Nehemiah:

AYERS, Rhoda Christening
Gender: Female
Christening Date: 16 Mar 1856 Recorded in: Inkpen, Berkshire, England
Father: Damias AYERS
Mother: Susan
Source: FHL Film 1041182 Dates: 1813 - 1885

I thought so but as i have brain ache its even harder,lol.

Also a big Thank you

I agree, it's very confusing!
BVRI is British Vital Records Index. They're taken fron parish records like IGI. They're a set of discs that you have to purchase.

Damias, i have seen that one . But i would like to claim it (lol) but i am not good at this at all....

If its the BRVI cold i get a cert from it?

I wonder if i could Damias Ayres cert maybe he had two names and then chose to use the Nehemiah later?

Am i making this harder??

There's this Rhoda Ayers on BVRI but father's name is Damias instead of Nehemiah:

AYERS, Rhoda Christening
Gender: Female
Christening Date: 16 Mar 1856 Recorded in: Inkpen, Berkshire, England
Father: Damias AYERS
Mother: Susan
Source: FHL Film 1041182 Dates: 1813 - 1885

My theory:
Her father died, her mother remarried, she used her stepfather's name until she married when she used her birth name. I've seen it happen before.

Thank you for the replies.

Michael, i think the Rhoda Ayres born 1856 is my Rhoda as i have the the parents named in that listing already as Nehemiah Ayres is already in my tree. I am beginning to wonder if the Rhoda Ayres/Turner is the same person.

However i cannot find a birth for her either,nor a death.

Sorry Margaret you are right it is Rose on the cert.
But i have two of the childrens certs. On one its Rose and on the other its Rhoda both formerly Turner.one cert is from the the third child born and then the last one which is my gt.gt. grandfather.

This is confusing me.

On BVRI her name is Rose Turner:

STOCKWELL, Charles Age: 19 Marriage
Wife: Rose TURNER Age: 19
Marriage Date: 25 Jul 1874 Recorded in: Andover, Hampshire, England
Husband's Father: Charles STOCKWELL
Wife's Father: John TURNER
Source: FHL Film 1041199 Dates: 1856 - 1876

could she have been married before?
on second marriage certs they use her married name

I am having great trouble pinning this lady down. Wondered if anyone else had this lady in their tree or even maybe be able to help?

I have her marriage cert.

Rhoda Turner married Charles Stockwell in 1874 Andover, Hampshire.

I have her on all the census from after her marriage. However i cannot find her birth!
Her birth according to the census:

1881 aged 27 birth place Inkpen, Berkshire, England
1891 aged 34 birth place Andover, Hampshire, England
1901 aged 46 birth place Andover , Hampshire, England

They was in the same place for all three of these census.
From the wedding cert in 1874 her age was given as 19 yrs and her fathers name was John Turner. She was married in Andover Hampshire as well.

I cannot find her death either Rhoda Stockwell and i believe they had at least 12 children.