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CHANGING OF SURNAME

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Hoobity

Hoobity Report 21 Mar 2009 14:36

Personally I don't think it is ever a good idea to search for living children on web pages.
It all may be perfectly innocent but then again it may not.
If people are genuinely looking for their children it should be done through the proper channels, ie- solicitors, family courts, family mediators.

Luckylainey

Luckylainey Report 21 Mar 2009 13:51

Was your husband married to the Mother? I may be wrong but this happened to me and has also happened to my Step-son regarding his child.

A Mother cannot legally change her childrens surnames without the consent of the father if they are married at the time of the children's birth. My father would not allow the change of surname, so my brother and I changed it just by using our Step-Fathers surname. We were never able to change it legally. However I had my Step-Dad's surname for 34 yrs until I married my hubby. My brother has had the name for 37 yrs with no problems.

Also recently my ex-daughter in law wanted to change our Grand-daughters surname but was unable to do so without the consent of the childs father.

Hope this helps,

Lainey x

Jayne

Jayne Report 21 Mar 2009 11:13

Thanks for your help ,do you know where i can look to find out if their surname has been changed legally?

SylviaInCanada

SylviaInCanada Report 21 Mar 2009 04:56

Unless they did it legally, ie the second husband adopted the boys, or they did it by deed poll, when you might be able to find something published or in a court report, then it might be impossible to find out.


Unfortunately, you don't have to do it by a lawyer or judge, or have the change published. It can just be done by usage.



so they might just have decided that the two boys should have the same name as the stepfather.


This happened to a cousin of mine .......... she was adopted by her mother's first husband, all done legally, but mother then lived common law with someone else. They decided to emigrate to another country, and changed the daughter's name again so "she would fit in with the family". There could have been major repercussions in the other country when it was discovered what ahd happened ........ but the authorities decided to let mother off with a warning and treat the daughter as an innocent victim!



sylvia

Researching:
My brother, photo taken in September 1991 just a couple of weeks before he died. ............................................................ To help us and to get better results, please post as much detail as you can, especially name, date(s) and place. Also say what you already know.

Madmeg

Madmeg Report 21 Mar 2009 01:02

People could (and still can) change their surname at will. Are you sure they actually changed it, or were just shown on the census with the new husband's surname - that is common?

Margaret

Jayne

Jayne Report 20 Mar 2009 22:01

CAN ANYONE TELL IF IT IS POSSIBLE TO FIND OUT IF SOMEONE HAS CHANGED THEIR SURNAME. I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO FIND MY HUSBANDS TWO SONS , I NOW THINK I HAVE BUT THEY HAVE A DIFFERENT SURNAME, THAT OF THE MOTHERS SECOND HUSBAND