Genealogy Chat

Just to let you know that my friend is now in touch with her half sister which is wonderful news.

They have a lot of catching up to do and to find answers to their many questions.

It was the site Francis Frith that gave me my lead on this one. I looked in the memories and recognised what one lady was talking about and just took it from there.

Many thanks to everyone whos helped me.
and Thankyou also from my friend who does appreciate your efforts.

Donna

Hi Donna

Brilliant news :O) I told you she must have been searching too, in order to trace her Father, what site did you find her on.

Have you got an address for her ? anyway wish her and your friend all the best for the Future :O)

I HAVE FOUND HER.

I WAS BROWSLING ANOTHER SITE AND CAME ACROSS HER PURELY BY CHANCE.

ITS FANTASTIC!!!!

THANKYOU EVERYONE FOR YOUR HELP YOU HAVE BEEN WONDERFUL

DONNA

Yes thanks done that.

I have search results from tracesmart so going through them at the moment.

Will keep you posted.

Hi

Are you sure that the sister was adopted ? if her Mother died when she was 2 maybe she could have been raised by family, and kept her name,
On the plus side if she contacted your Friends Mother then she is looking for her birth family, have you done a search of tree on here to see if she has been a member ?

The father died over 20 yrs ago.
I have given my friend details of adoptive childrensreg which is held in Manchester county record office. They are shut this weekend so she will have to go next week.

Thankyou all for your help.
We seem to be on the right track now.

Donna

I wonder if this second wife knew about the child at all?
Presumably she did if she let it slip in converation.

Have you got the birth cert? is he named? Have you asked him what he thinks? if he is the surviving parent maybe is up to him IF he is named on the cert.

So your friends mum refused to allow this poor women contact with her natural father... May God forgive her because I certainly wouldn't. She had no right to do that !! It wasn't her decision.

Sorry I get hot under the collar when people start playing God.

There is an Adoption Contact Register that your friend can join. Her h/sister may be already on it. If so they will contact her to let her know your friend wishes contact.

There are a few good websites to read up about adoption searches
www.adoptionsearchreunion.org.uk and also www.gro.gov.uk and click into adoptions.

Hope this helps.

Gerry

No , My friends real mother the second wife of my friends father is who doesn't want contact. Her half sister and her share the same father ,but different mothers. First wife died aged 22.

What a shame. She will have to tread carefully to avoid a family rift.

Hi

So from the info you have given I am right in thinking that her half sister has been looking for your friend already ?
So is your friends adoptive mother that does not want her to have contact with her sister ?

I have rang Joan ,but shes been in hospital and isn't very well. I asked her advise and what steps next to take and she proved very helpful.

Thankyou all for your input.

Hi Sandra

I did give Donna Joans phone number yesterday & told her Joan is fantastic at finding people

Julie

Hi Donna

Try this lady (joan allan). she can be found on myfolks.org.uk ,
Or if you type her name in the search box at the top of this page you can personal message her on this site.
She has excellent knowledge on tracing people.

She did try to make contact last year and telephoned my friend's mum who told her they did what to rake up the past. The truth is that my friend wasn't told of this at the time and only just found out from her mother when it slipped out in conversation. Her mother is set against contact and says she doesn't know where she is only she had a town name.


Thankyou for your help

The best way is to let her find you.

Your friend has the knowledge that she has a half sister ( is that right) that was given for adoption.

The girl given for adoption may not know she isnt the natural child of her parents.

you can register with various site ( or she can)

What you wont find anywhere is a list/register of
Jill Brown became Helen Green. ( or whatever)

To broaden your knowledge, have a look here - not only does it tell you about adoption, its lists various resouces
http://www.familytreeforum.com/wiki/index.php/Adoption

I know nothing about the processes of finding adopted children. I am searching for my friends half sister.
I have her birth parents names and know her mother died when she was 2yrs. I know her birth from the registers which was in 1950 .Are there any kind of search registers with children looking for their birth parents or family?

Thankyou for your help in this matter.