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Non Marriage!

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RutlandBelle

RutlandBelle Report 4 Dec 2011 18:23

had to share this from Lincs to the past Images:

Barrowby 1773

Vicar had made a comment:
This marriage was not solemnised as when being asked at the Alter, will you have this woman to be thy wedded wife, William Ansell instead of answering I will, answered NO.

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LondonBelle

LondonBelle Report 4 Dec 2011 18:41

LOL.....:)

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Go on, make my day!

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 4 Dec 2011 18:44

Could the bride's father have left his Flintlock/Pitch fork in the porch? ;-)

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RutlandBelle

RutlandBelle Report 4 Dec 2011 18:47

Just in case there any Lincolnshire searchers out there this is an excellent site as you can see the images, you have to search much as you would at an archive but if you have a fair idea of place and dates it is not too onerous. For instance if I put 'Harlaxton marriages' into the search box I get over 120 images. You can zoom in and see the writing very clearly and some records go back to the 1600's

http://www.lincstothepast.com/home/

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Chris in Sussex

Chris in Sussex Report 4 Dec 2011 22:27

Mmmmm....

Wish I had the foresight many years ago to reply the same :-D

Hindsight is a wonderful thing!

Chris

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Diamonds-R-A-Girls-Best-Friend

Diamonds-R-A-Girls-Best-Friend Report 4 Dec 2011 23:00

I'll second that Chris ;-) ;-)

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MargaretM

MargaretM Report 4 Dec 2011 23:58

Oh! I love it!

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Jonesey

Jonesey Report 5 Dec 2011 09:09

I too was obliged to answer "No" when first asked the question by the minister who was marrying us.

The reason being that the minister knew my wife to be's family very well including her 2 sisters. He obviously suffered a senior moment because instead of asking if I would take my intended (Janet) as my wife, he used her sister Betty's name. When I said "No", he stopped, stared and then realised what he had done. We all laughed and he then asked the question again, this time using the correct name. At the second time of asking I replied "Yes"

Almost 44 years later I don't regret that but I'm not too sure my wife would agree. ;-)

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+++DetEcTive+++ Report 5 Dec 2011 09:36

Such a good thing that you were listening properly Jonesey! Just think of the legal ramifications - your wife could have been married to you, but you to her sister. ;-)

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MaureeninNY

MaureeninNY Report 5 Dec 2011 13:19

I bet your sister-in-law is happy,though!!!! ;-)

OH proposed the toast to the bride and groom at his brother's (second) marriage.
Slight error on his part-you guessed it-he wished his brother and "insert the ex-wife's name here" a long and joyous etc.

Maureen