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Margaretfinch

Margaretfinch Report 14 May 2012 16:11

thank you for your replies I have sent a simple letter
just to see if it the right person and put in a S.A.E.

On looking her up I am quite sure she is a widow and they had no children also her ister has died and she was not married.
Thanks Margaret

Researching:
Finch Weathersfield Essex. Poole Haverhill Suffolk.GoodchildSouth Ascot BerkshireFry Wilton Wiltshire Goddard Laverstock Wiltshire Grayston Suffolk

JustDinosaurJill

JustDinosaurJill Report 14 May 2012 13:01

Perhaps you could add that if they don't feel able to reply, you totally understand but you would be very grateful if they could pass on your letter to another family member.

J

Researching:
Birmingham: Wood,Benson,Eadie,Wassall. Barnsley: Eadie. Whalsay,Sheltland: Polson,Poleson. Chipping Norton: Busby. Winchcombe: Goodall/Goodhall. Kate MM (Eadie) Meteyard. Sidney Herbert Meteyard - English Pre-Raphaelite Painter and member of the Birmingham Group. Meteyard/Meatyard family.

DazedConfused

DazedConfused Report 14 May 2012 11:58

Send a letter, explain that you think you 'may' be related.

In the letter name the people who you think you might be related through.

And if you have any old photos of these people enclose copies of these too.

Try to keep the letter light - do not go into too much detail.

And enclose an S.A.E. so they can reply at no cost to themselves.

But after all this, do not be surprised if you receive no reply. And if you do not get a reply do not send anymore letters as this could be misconstrued and possibly frighten them.

However, the good thing is if they do contact you at that age she may be a wealth of information and possibly photos.

Wish you Luck

PP

Researching:
We are all of us in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars, Oscar Wilde New avatar, my dad age about 3/4 months, could have been worse, it could have been the awful nude on a rug!!

littlelegs

littlelegs Report 14 May 2012 08:56

hi margaret
i sent a letter not long ago to my mums cousin he is 72
he didnt know anything about us
but he and his daughter was so pleased they had got the letter
they now want to meet us and share info and photos
so write a letter
and then its up to them if they want to get in touch with you
hope this helps
lorraine

Margaretfinch

Margaretfinch Report 14 May 2012 07:43

I have just found a cousin whom I knew nothing about she is in her late eighties I don't want to shock her and I do not know if she knows anything. How would I approach her it will have to be by letter. thankyou
Margaret

Researching:
Finch Weathersfield Essex. Poole Haverhill Suffolk.GoodchildSouth Ascot BerkshireFry Wilton Wiltshire Goddard Laverstock Wiltshire Grayston Suffolk