General Chat

HI EVERYONE
AS USUAL I WORDEDIT WRONG
JUST WHY JADE DAY,,,,,,,,,,,,WHY NOT ALL THE MUMS ,DAUGHTERS DAY,,,
AND JEAN I AGREE THE LAST FEW WEEKS OR DAYS SHOULD BE PRIVATE,,I KNOW I SEEN THE PD FUTURE FOR ME AND IM SO SCARED,I TICK EACH NEW SYMPTON
INCLUDING LOOSING WRITTEN WORDS,,I NOTICED MY SPEACH,,

SO FOR CANCER PATIENTS,
DIGNATY FIRST,,SORRY IF STILL WRONG WORDS

jean I think you are right. I too think jade should now be left to be with her family and to die in peace. But she seems to want to continue with the media. maybe it is her way of coping I don't know. I wish he peace anyway.

Ann
Glos

~~~~~~~to Janey. Great to see you posting.

I have nothing but admiration for Jade and I begrudge her nothing. I think she has done a lot, along with other celebrities, to promote screening for cancers.

I am going to be controversial now. I think it has gone far enough and the media should now draw back and let her die with dignity.

I might be burying my head in the sand but I don't want to know about Jade's terrible suffering. It upsets me so much to hear all
the things that are happening to her in minute detail because it brings home to me what could happen to my daughter and I don't want to face that until I absolutely have to.

I would also think that a lot of cancer sufferers would rather face their illness on a daily basis and not know what might happen in a week, a month or a years time. I know I would and do.

This is just my opinion.

Jean.

Me too, Gwen & Kim....

This is a good thread, it offers all points of view and please leave it up.

xx

sorry Gwen/Kim, I didn't mean to insinuate that gwen was blaming Jade, i know she wasn't

Ann
Glos

I was a bit sceptical about the media circus and thought it was all a bit over the top, but I saw the poor girl on the news yesterday and seeing how poorly she looked, my heart went out to her.....and to her poor children, after all they're going to lose their mum, they don't understand about her past, to them she's just mum, so if she leaves them a legacy, however it's earned, isn't that what mum's do?

Sorry but I fail to see where Diz is attacking Jade?
From what I have read she is simply stating that there are an awful lot of people who find themselves in the same position and that when a cure for Cancer in all its forms is finally found all the pain and heartache this horrific disease causes will finally stop.
Its the ultimate wish and one I,m sure Jade would whole heartedly agree with.

I meant to say Hello Janey always good to see you on here.

ann
glos

No need to delete Gwen, it is a good subject to debate. I am sorry for your friends children, it is very sad for them. However I don't think anyone should blame Jade for doing what any Mother would do, that is provide for her children after she has died, I have never had much time for Jade but I do admire the single mindedness with which she has approached the security of her children. And the side effect of this has been the raised awareness of this type of cancer.

Of course you are right Gwen, there should be more money put into researching all cancers and finding a cure for all cancers but the sad thing is there is not enough money for such a large project. maybe by the raised awareness of Jade's cancer, more people will support cancer charities when given the chance and not think it can't happen to them.

Ann
Glos

I do feel that people are very scared to talk of dying and of cancer and what Jade is doing is really bringing it out into the open.

I just also want to say that I was never a Jade fan to begin with but I do admire what she is doing to raise awareness. My daughter thought it only happened to older people so this has really opened her eyes, and that has to be good.

Hope many of you ladies can say you have felt a lump and was to scared to tell anyone of go to the doctors for fear of what it was, Jade was like ths too in the beginning dont forget, she is only human and doing what she has to do to get through this terrible time. It is a very personal and lonely journey. I too am very angry and very sad by what I have, but you have to make the best of what you have and to be strong for the people around you. I had to travel a long way to go to hospital to have treatment, and now have a nurse that comes in which I have to pay for, but I have no regret's, I have done everything I can for my kids who give me so much strenght to carry on. They know where ever I am they are truly loved.

So see dont be so hard on Jade, you never really know what goes on behind closed doors, what you read in the press is very slanted. And yes I would go to the end of the earth for my kids. We are all going to go one day one way or another.

Which is the first point I made Gwen. If you were in the position Jade is in, and you were able to do that for your kids you would.

Sadly we're not all in that position, and the majority of us will not be able to leave a fortune after we're gone, as much as we would love to. That's life!

But Jade's position as TW said is the same as all the other Mum's or Dad's who will sadly be leaving young children behind.

Money will make not a scrap of difference to the grief each and every one of those children will have to endure.

There is no comfort in a bank balnce.................but the love from others left behind to care for them will help them through the rest of their lives.

NOT CRITISING AS SUCH
JADE IS OKAY AS A PERSON
BUT
WHAT ABOUT ALL THE MUMS NOW
THINKING ..OMG MY KIDS
I CANT,,I WISH
AN I KNOW WHAT A TIME BOMB TICKING
IS LIKE,,,,,,,,,,MINE IS FAST AND LOUD

She didnt have much herself as a kid, and want's to make sure her kids don't go through the same.including a good education.
I think anyone would do the same..if they could.
I watched part of the wedding...it must have been hell for her family and friends knowing it will soon be over for her.

Marion

"i've seen little of this raising cancer awareness"

well my daughters are 14 and almost 12yrs old and it has raised awareness and discussion amongst them and their friends,which can only be a good thing.

Karen x

I understand where you are coming from Gwen, but it seems a little unfair to criticise Jade for doing the best she can for her children's future.


There is no need to delete either, it is interesting to see different viewpoints, whatever the subject:)

Whats the point in deleting Dizzi, its a good discussion. OK the views might not agree with your own, but its not caused any problems.

I will add one comment.

The one person who will NOT be benefitting from the media interest is the one person at the centre of it. Jade Goodie. Yet she is slated for what she's doing.

SORRYMY OPINION HAS CAUSED A STIR




I /WE HAVE A £10 A MONTH STANDING

ORDER TO CANCER RESEARCH HAVE PAID INTO IT FOR OVER 15 YEARS
DAUGHTER ALSO RAISES AS MUCH AS SHE CAN

I JUST THINK WE SHOULD HAVE A CURE DAY FOR ALL

IL DELETE THIS SOON

Very true TW................maybe the making money for her children is the bit that grates with some people, but I am sure the other famous names were/are paid for their stories too.

Terminal illness is a very personal struggle and each person or family will deal with it in different ways.................who are we to judge?

Ok I'm going to be a little contetious here.

I dont' hear anyone slating other celebrities putting their illnesses in the public eye...

I mean people like Terry Pratchett, Kylie Minogue, Michael J Fox, who have all put thier ailments right in the public eye.

And how about others?

Roy Castle
Helen Rollason
Karon Keating
Bobby Moore
Steven Hawking
Wendy Richard.
Bob Monkhouse

The list goes on, but all their illnesses were right in the public glare and they USED it to raise awareness for their own particular illness. If its wrong for Jade to do what she's doing, then you are saying its wrong for all these others to have done it or are continuing to do it.