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Brenda, how awful for you and for that poor woman, so sad she let her husband get to such a stage that he controls her and has probably driven her out of her mind.

I don't see how you can help being kind to her, Do be careful, but let the authorities know - she shouldn't have to live with him raging at her all the while. Maybe she can get help to get away from him but don't want you getting hurt by this maniac of a man or should I say worm.


Lizxx

Carry on Brenda and no not boring.

Not been a good 2 weeks...nothing to do with illness...........
Had neighbour troubles..had a lot in 2012 which I didn't write about,but did involve police then.
This happened after I came back from Oz in spring2012.
A neighbour for over 10 yrs has a controlling husband.I helped a lot over the years feeling sorry,took her out at times to doctors,shopping to singing group etc.made curtains,hung them..lots of things...he fell out with neighbours both sides,no friends at all,he got jealous,tried to strangle her in August 2012.....long story and he banned her from seeing me....they live opposite,both in a lovely quiet area of detached houses.He has security camera and security light on my house all the time ...and any time I appear puts 2 fingers up.
Just giving you the outline.but there was a lot more to it,in fact I have a log of all dates from May 3rd2012
She has memory loss which gets worse...no wonder...she turned up before Christmas with a card and said you are my friend.I try not to be involved and have got used to his stupid behaviour .
Almost 2 weeks ago I brought the dustbin round back,put compost in bin didnt lock back door.Before I went out again remembered I had an arrangement for piano to sort for that night..sitting at piano and she is behind me,giving me a shock .
She's in a state,so even though I didn't want to get involved again I couldn't help giving her a coffee and sent her home.
He came outside raging at her......want to know more....or am I boring you??