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TOOK HIM FOR GRANTED

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♥†۩ Carol   Paine ۩†♥

♥†۩ Carol Paine ۩†♥ Report 27 Feb 2014 21:24

:-D

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 27 Feb 2014 20:03

Glad your o.h. got a good night's sleep Gwen, and hope the anti bs will work their magic so he doesn't have to go into hospital.

Try to only ask if he is ok once an hour instead of twice and tell him it's cos you care if he grumbles.

Take one day at a time

Big hugs

Lizxx

KittytheLearnerCook

KittytheLearnerCook Report 27 Feb 2014 19:30

As others have said, we all take our OH's for granted sometimes.

It took my OH being seriously ill and a high chance of losing him to make me realise how lucky I am to have him.

We love each other to bits, warts and all.

I hope he gets well quickly, please send him my best wishes Dizzi.

<3

Merlin

Merlin Report 27 Feb 2014 18:43

Thats nice DIZZI,HE,S RESPONDING TO YOU, DON,T FORGET TO TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM DEARLY,**M**

DIZZI

DIZZI Report 27 Feb 2014 18:16

HE MUST BE FEELING A BIT BETTER
HE'S MOANING AT ME BECAUSE I KEEP
ASKING ARE YOU OKAY.HE GOT A GOOD NIGHTS SLEEP
ME THE INSOMNIAC GOT NONE SO SHATTERED,
GLAD HE'S FEELING BETTER THOUGH

JoyBoroAngel

JoyBoroAngel Report 27 Feb 2014 17:27

most people don't know what they have till they nearly lose it
glad you have realised his worth

before it was to late :-D :-D

kandj

kandj Report 27 Feb 2014 13:31

We all take one another for granted, it's what human being do, so you are not alone. Now it's your chance to help your hubby in any small way that you can Dizzi. He is sure to appreciate and welcome your support. I do hope that the antibiotics work and keep him out of hospital. Take good care of one another, gentle hugs to you both. xx

Merlin

Merlin Report 27 Feb 2014 12:47

Get the Nurse or carers to come in and do it 7 days a week untill his infection has cleared up. Take care. **M**,

AnnMarieG

AnnMarieG Report 27 Feb 2014 11:51

Sending ))BIG HUGS (((( to both of you. xxx

badger

badger Report 27 Feb 2014 09:58

You two remind my of my much loved grandad and my grandmum ,grumpy and unable to walk ,and my grand dad ever devoted to her and looking after her until the day he died.
You hang in there Dizzie,god bless you both ,Fred. :-D <3

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 27 Feb 2014 08:54

Dizzi, I am sorry to hear your OH is unwell, I hope they can get rid of the infection without him having to go to hospital.

I am sure thatw e all take our partners for granted at some stage in our lives so I wouldn't worry too much about it. The main thing is to get him well now and show him that you appreciate all he does for you.

Joy

Joy Report 27 Feb 2014 08:36

<3

Remember when I met both of you? or, rather, you and he met me off the coach? :)

I send reassuring hugs to both of you.

OneFootInTheGrave

OneFootInTheGrave Report 27 Feb 2014 07:54

DIZZI,

Don't be silly, I am sure your OH does not think you are taking him for granted, he is doing what any loving husband would do, he is looking after you because he wants to, no doubt in years gone bye you have looked after him.

Fingers crossed that the antibiotics do the trick and the infection clears up quickly so as to avoid the need to go into hospital

<3 <3 <3

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 27 Feb 2014 07:32

Gwen, none of that now! I am sure your o.h. took you for granted too over the years and if things that happened have brought you closer, then that's a little bonus.

Hope he is soon feeling lots better and won't have to go into hospital. If he does, then your G.P. will have to find help for you somehow. Let's hope it doesn't come to that tho and your hubby will soon be well enough to pander to your every need.

Positive thoughts to you both


Lizxx

Mersey

Mersey Report 27 Feb 2014 07:25

Exactly what Scozz says <3 <3 <3 <3

Dizzi <3 <3 <3

LadyScozz

LadyScozz Report 27 Feb 2014 07:10

Dizzi!!!!

You are NOT annoying!!!!

You've had a lot of worry about your own health, now you're worried about your OH.

Loving couples look after each other........ I'm sure you've looked after your OH.

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

DIZZI

DIZZI Report 27 Feb 2014 06:55

I HAVE SO TAKEN HIM FOR GRANTED AND I'M SO SORRY
FOR THAT,
SINCE MY EVENT IN ICU AND A MEDICAL INDUCED 16 DAY COMA
MY OH HAS BEEN LOOKING AFTER ME,I STILL CANNOT WALK AND
HAVE SUCH BAD FLUID RETENTION I KNOW HAVE FLUID SORES SO 3 X A WEEK THE GP NURSE DRESSES MY LEGS SND OTHER DAYS OH DO'SE
WELL OH IS ILL,HE CUT HIS THUMB LAST WEEK AND ITS TURNED TO A BAD INFECTION TRAVELING UP HIS ARM ,,ITS SERIOUS TO THE EFFECT HE MAY HAVE TO GO IN HOSPITAL,BECAUSE I HAVE NO ONE TO HELP ME THERE TRYING TO GET RID OF THE POISON WITH THE HEAVY DOSE ANTIBIOTICS,
I JUST WAIT TO SEE HOW HE IS,
SO I WILL NEVER TAKE HIM FOR GRANTED AGAIN AND IM SORRY FOR BEING
SO ANNNOYING