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Lawyer and Children
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Sandra | Report | 5 Dec 2014 08:30 |
Hi Hope someone know about lawyers and children As some off you know from the pat on here my daughter and her children dad are not together. A month ago he moved back down to here from Scotland. He said he wont to see the boys but children 1 who Is 8 does not wont to see him children 2 who Is 5 said if he not going them I not, So he payed someone £660 00 to sit in a room with him and her and at the end of it this person said this will not get sorted here that they need to go to court that it in a nut shell. Yesterday grandchild 1 when to see his friend as he call this women at children services he has needs in school and out off school she told my daughter that he should not see the boys That a lot of the children problems are to do with him. Mu daughter has no money for a lawyer and she will not get help with one, we know this because in may she need a lawyer to help with benefit office and she earn to much. One of my friend has said as mad as this sound can the boys not get help in paying a lawyer to go to court for them. Dose anyone know anything about lawyer and children and paying them thank you |
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Kay???? | Report | 5 Dec 2014 09:21 |
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Sandra | Report | 5 Dec 2014 10:14 |
He was given the chance to have supervised visit but turn that down . When they were together and he had boys when she was at work child1 how shall I put it he keep doing thing like falling down the stairs but it only happen when he had them. when they lived with us for a few month he get up one night to see to child1 who was crying in the morning children 1 had to be taken to A&E with a lump on his head did not have when he when to bed. When doctor at A&E asked him about it he got rude told him to mind it That is part of why children service do not wont him seeing them |
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Kay???? | Report | 5 Dec 2014 11:12 |
Your daughter needs to laise with children services.each case is decided on many factors.If shes not happy with any CServices worker then rights for complaints can be took up. |
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Sandra | Report | 12 Dec 2014 08:11 |
Update |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 13 Dec 2014 00:52 |
Poor kids, how worrying this must be for you and your daughter, and children must feel under pressure too. Hope things work out ok. |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 13 Dec 2014 13:34 |
It's good she has the Social Services involved. She needs to send them a copy of any correspondence she gets from him or his solicitor |
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AnninGlos | Report | 13 Dec 2014 15:17 |
I hope it works out well for the children and your daughter. It is good that S Services and the school are aware. |
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Sandra | Report | 25 Feb 2015 11:59 |
Update on what is going on with the grandchildren |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 25 Feb 2015 12:37 |
he sounds like a control freak and still trying to control :-( :-( |
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Sandra | Report | 14 Apr 2015 08:18 |
Well Daughter when to family court 2 week go He Got 3 hour a week to see the boys He did not wont them on a weekend He wont them on a Monday because of his job. He would not have them last Monday because of his job. On sunday he rung her and said was not having this Monday because of a work thing. He also rung CSA and told them a liar that he had sorted his money for the boys out with her They stop his payment to her from him ,this happen 4 week ago till trying to sort it The CSA have said they are sorry and they should have spoken to her before they stopped his money. Yesterday CSA phone her to say He will not return there phone call and do we know where he is.She had to go to boys school yesterday and tell them that the court told him to get in touch with them and he has to go school event for the boys I bet he does. We go back to court in July so the court can see how well he has done What a waste of time for the court and for her |
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AnninGlos | Report | 14 Apr 2015 08:46 |
What a waste of soace he is. And how upsetting for his children. |
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LaGooner | Report | 14 Apr 2015 10:39 |
Sounds a waste of space just like my ex son in law. :-| :-| :-|. |
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LadyScozz | Report | 14 Apr 2015 11:12 |
I don't think he really wants the children. |
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RolloTheRed | Report | 14 Apr 2015 11:27 |
Legal aid is no longer available for family matters unless there have been incidents of serious violence. |
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Mersey | Report | 14 Apr 2015 12:41 |
People playing with hearts and lives of those close to them.......children never forget, |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 14 Apr 2015 13:11 |
ha sounds like a right master baker to me |
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**Stella ~by~ Starlight**★..★..★ | Report | 14 Apr 2015 13:28 |
When i divorced my husband he walked out and never made contact for 3 weeks , then he turned up wanting to see our 5 year old son.I told him that he could not and in future he would have to make an appointmemt to see him. |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 14 Apr 2015 13:40 |
Well done Stella |
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Sandra | Report | 15 Apr 2015 07:51 |
He has told her this can all go away if she takes him back. The court is sending someone to talk to Grandchild 1 as he will be 9 in a few weeks time about what he wont He was was asked in court what he knows about the boys needs eg grandchild 2 meds and he knows nothing and has never tried to found out about the children need. CSA have still not got a reply from him |
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