General Chat

Of course it will take time and you can still grieve while being there for T, he needs you as well. So I am pleased that tonight was a break through, you will have set backs I am sure but onwards and upwards. Minx will always be in both your hearts but T is alive and so are you.

Hugs for you , Uzzi just take each day as it comes and when you can laugh, do so without feeling guilty. I am sure your T. is happy to have you back the way you were.
Lizxx

Thank you all of you xx

Uzzi, it will take time but you have made a start :-) <3

Sylvia and Lavender I am not sure that I am that safe yet but giggling in the hot tub helped

Glad you are getting there. It's been a sad time for you X

Aww Uzzi.
Bless you, you will miss Minx so much but have so many memories. I am pleased to hear you and your OH have had a good laugh together, long may it continue xx

I am here, if a few pounds lighter, that is no bad thing. I haven´t finished my grieving for my furbaby but I am willing to appear. Just don´t expect make-up or hair do´s :-D :-D.

I know this might sound odd but the posts I have been trying to do, the night music etc were all about Minx. I was trying to get back some life.
Doesn´t work that way, but I am now a functioning person of humanity, just. . ;-) never was before a fully functionally don´t see why I should be now
It will be 5 weeks tomorrow but tonight I laughed and played in the hot tub with OH like a teenager, and I meant it.
watching OH´s reaction to me, told me how much he has silently trod around me. We had a giggle like newly weds do, or those long married who still love fun do..
I am not perfect yet, but then hey ho I never was before so why should that change :-D

I miss Minx so very much, but life has to go on and she will never be far away from me and always in my heart. <3
But I love my OH more and he can only support my loss for so long. So Today I have tested the waters back in the real world :-D :-D :-D