General Chat

Will do <3

please pass on my love when you next see him :-) :-) :-) :-)

*thinking* ....... lolol I need Mr. Daff he came up with the name for our company..lolol

A bit of banter blows the cob webs off :-D

well most of the day I've been feeling under the weather but have to admit, I've had the best laugh this evening - these boards have been so much fun - that's what life is all about - having a good laugh :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D

trying desperately to come up with a name for your company Sue :-D

Why - what did they do?

who cares - surely you couldn't have said anything to upset anyone?

Now Sue, what about a good name for this new company of yours

Now why was that reported?

I don't see half of what goes on FB Supercrutch lol, if it doesn't show up on my page I don't go looking, mostly I am on genealogy pages or posting the odd photo :-)

I knew it was about you Rose, I though you knew about daughter from FB....... her smiling face was all over my pages..lolol

No I didn't know Supercrutch, it was me I was talking about, but I am glad your daughter is now happy with her life :-)

sure is Sue - you should set up a company to rescue vulnerable people from such bloodsucking control freaks

Somethings money cant buy Sue, shes so lucky to have such a loving and supporting family,

Rose, you know daughter was left with nothing, she had to cash in her shares and recall her private pension contributions. Her brother paid all her travel expenses to live with him and has been supporting her for just about 2 years.

When I think of her loss of financial independence I could go over to the house and cheerfully throttle him. However, she is happy, her health has improved, she enjoys her new life and is living in a country she feels comfortable in. More importantly, she is loved and cared for by her brother and all of his employees who treat her well, so much so that her self esteem is at an all time high.

That is worth more than money

:-D

POOR YOU
my heart bleeds for you

well it would if i had one ;-) ;-)

letting go...I have never been very good at it. I carry a grudge lol, well not so much a grudge but a combination of a really good memory for what people have said and done and a general sense of what is fair and right ( honest) means I don't find it easy to forgive human frailties which have injured me and mine...more especially I find it very hard to forgive myself for being gullible and trusting people I should have had the nous not to lol !

But recently someone who 'did me wrong' died, I heard the news third hand, and it came as a shock because it came so late and because of the very traumatic nature of the death. But do you know, it wiped out entirely the anger I had carried for 20 years, all I could feel was that it really didn't matter anymore that not having the final word or being able to ask "Why?" was no longer important, that this was someone who yes let me down but actually he really couldn't help it, it was just who he was and how the circumstances fell.

But the point I'm making ( badly lol) is that in no longer disliking him intensely it was actually me it freed.

Maybe it is just as much ones own fault for not listening to instinct and for trying to make the other person fit the profile you need them to? I met a man once with sparkling eyes and attributed to him all the qualities I was looking for, integrity and honesty among them, it wasn't actually his fault that he didn't have them ( though he lied by omission so it wasn't all one sided).

I think it's much harder to forgive your lack of judgement when you have parted with money than it is to forgive when all you have lost is your heart, the latter implies you are loving, the former just makes you feel stupid :-D

I have a lovely friend on here who fell into the clutches of a money sucking limpet - she managed to prise him off and she is happier than she's ever been, so there is life after user twits :-D :-D

I like that too - money sucking limpets - another lovely picture - any more? :-D

Yes I have known plenty of those.

JoyBuroAngel there are many like that sadly.

I knew one once who was very clever at precisely that but they were eventually found out.