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Ethical dilemma..
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lavender | Report | 19 Dec 2015 16:20 |
That is certainly a thought TessakaBridget and I did think the paternal grandmother might have had an influence on him, too. There is a real possibility that this grandmother moved to the other side of the country that year. It may have been a manoeuvre to break up the relationship. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 19 Dec 2015 00:54 |
If it's another generation, could they not be introduced as 'friends of the family'. |
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TessAkaBridgetTheFidget | Report | 19 Dec 2015 00:02 |
In the UK if parents are not married the mother cannot (legally) put the fathers name on the birth cert. unless he is there/gives his permission.. |
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lavender | Report | 18 Dec 2015 19:25 |
Thank you all for your input. That is the situation, Rose. |
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Kay???? | Report | 18 Dec 2015 18:37 |
If there has been no desire or even knowledge of any extended family then it could be too emotional to comprehend the whole situation and if any lines of future approach needs to be done with extreme care and by an insider who knows the actual persons personallity and traits brought about by their disability...the mother could possibly not cope with having this heaped on her offspring regardless of age... |
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Caroline | Report | 18 Dec 2015 18:26 |
Unless you already had family contact with the family in the past I'd say no as family, maybe as a friend. |
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Rambling | Report | 18 Dec 2015 17:45 |
I think I am reading it differently to Ann? I'm assuming that there is no medical benefit to the child from being in touch with the birth father's family? that it would be just to 'make good' on past lack of contact? |
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AnnCardiff | Report | 18 Dec 2015 17:17 |
if it were my child and the disability was life threatening then I'd do whatever I could to find a solution |
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lavender | Report | 18 Dec 2015 17:13 |
Sorry, I'm not sure which board to write this on… |