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Very nice posting Shirley. lovely words, for which I thank you.
Recognise so much in there.

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Harry ,
I am sure you and your darling were like us . Comfortable in our own world and at ease with each other that the unspoken wasn't needed , we knew we loved and supported each other so we would surport through what was thrown at us .

The hard thing is sometimes regret on a specific time when we didn't or couldn't go with the flow so we snapped . We shouldnt dwell on small things as they were only a very small part of the huge overall part of our relationship .we wouldn't be human if we didnt have some down times and got peed off , I am sure my hubby got peed off with me at times too

Probably more of our mood at the time rather that OH couldn't do what we thought was right (in our eyes ) . My mum would say you can't doing right for doing wrong.

I am sure your lovely lady knew how much you cared and was happy to have your love and support as a crutch

<3 <3

Lovely posting Shirley. Thank you Ann, best of luck.

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it sure is <3 <3

We didn't always say I love you but the unspoken love between us we both knew was there .

We still had that special smile between us that spoke volumes as it was with our eyes as well as our mouths

Comfortable being with each other in our special way was our world . A spontaneous hug too was special

When it's gone it's a big loss and an empty world <3

Thanks Ann. Very nice of you to say that. Much appreciated.

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and may I say you didn't "make a mistake" - no way, she knew how much you loved her <3 <3 <3 <3

Good for you Uzzi. I'm preaching to the converted. Good girl. Best of everything to you both.

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Such good advise, I tell my OH everyday that I love him, always have and the 1 time he left the house when I was in a "huff" and I didn`t tell him, I had to phone him to tell him. Sort of stops you being in a snit :-D

We have the policy don´t leave the house or go to sleep without those precious words, married nearly 13yrs and together 20.

Delightful folks. Still quite lonely without her - nothing can replace a wife of 53 years.

However, if you have a partner, parent or friend, make sure you say it before it is too late.

best wishes to all. Happy days

Harry you may not think you showed your love, we know you did and I am very sure that your darling Audrey knew the extent of your love and appreciation for her.
Three years is such a short time when missing a loved one, when that time for others has moved on. Treasure your memories and share with us when ever you feel you can <3 <3

Harry your love for her showed in your posts on here so I am sure it must have shown in how you treated her. Three years, it has gone quickly for us but not for you I am sure. <3 <3 <3

<3 <3 <3 <3 Harry, keep remembering those treasured memories <3

Thinking of you, Harry

<3 For you Harry

Your wife will have known that she was loved and she will always be in your heart. Treasure your happy memories. Sending you a hug <3

Thinking of you, Harry.

You always spoke so well of her, Harry, so I'm sure she knew how you felt.

Sending you hugs Harry <3 <3 <3 <3

Harry, we don't need a special date to remember loved ones no longer here.
They are forever in our hearts and only ever a thought away. Think of happy times.
Sending gentle hugs for you today. xxx