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Not feeling great
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 14 Mar 2017 15:12 |
My grandaughter rang me yesterday at 8 am . She is in Spain on a skiing week and was off to the piste for a ski |
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Caroline | Report | 14 Mar 2017 15:28 |
Does it ever really go away in all honesty, you just learn to cope so to speak. |
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PatinCyprus | Report | 14 Mar 2017 15:37 |
So sorry you got down yesterday but you did write that today was better because you were with people and could talk about your OH. |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 14 Mar 2017 15:41 |
It doesn't to be honest |
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Von | Report | 14 Mar 2017 15:56 |
Thinking of you Shirley <3 |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 14 Mar 2017 16:00 |
Thanks folks |
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Caroline | Report | 14 Mar 2017 16:33 |
I wasn't trying to dismiss your feelings, just whether you realise or not you do end up coping...still hurting often but you get through each day one day at a time. |
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AnninGlos | Report | 14 Mar 2017 16:34 |
You have done well Shirley, as you say, you cope because there is no alternative option. But you do have some good days and even on the bad days you have good memories. I like the old adage 'It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all'. Like us you had many years of a loving relationship, I don't know how I would cope if Tony pre-deceased me, but I know I would have to. No, moving on is not easy, hopefully the good days will soon outnumber the bad and you can enjoy your life in a different way while cherishing the wonderful memories. Sending you a (((((hug))))) because I think that is one of the things I would miss most. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 14 Mar 2017 16:56 |
Thank you Caroline your reply is so true |
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Tenerife Sun | Report | 14 Mar 2017 17:05 |
I do know how you feel Shirley and how it becomes second nature to put on a brave face at times. |
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Barbra | Report | 14 Mar 2017 17:21 |
There are Good & Bad times in our lives .be positive & keep your Hubby in your heart forever Take care Barbra <3 |
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Mersey | Report | 14 Mar 2017 17:46 |
Shirley <3 <3 |
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Gwyn in Kent | Report | 14 Mar 2017 18:14 |
I so understand Shirley. |
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BrendafromWales | Report | 14 Mar 2017 18:24 |
Shirley,we all understand and those of us who have lost their other half can identify with you. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 14 Mar 2017 23:54 |
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kandj | Report | 15 Mar 2017 09:49 |
Shirley, I think others have said what I am thinking for you. Sending you a |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 15 Mar 2017 11:06 |
Thank you . |
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AnnCardiff | Report | 15 Mar 2017 11:09 |
it never really goes away Shirley - always there - sometimes at the back of your mind and sometimes at the front - early days for you - Lawrence loved the rugby and I turn his photograph to the TV if Wales are doing well - daft I know!!! I was at the GPs yesterday and they called his name - I nearly collapsed - never knew there was another Lawrence Sullivan in the area - such a coincidence and such a shock. I was called in next!! I always talk about him and it will be 15 years this October |
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