General Chat

I know Caroline infact I did see the post and laughed to be honest and thought over the top and brush it aside, and not graced them with a response.,,,,,,,,but I knew in an instant what would happen.and in the end is it worth the rise in blood pressure...…..nah.

alls well that ends well..as BC would say move over folks and let me get me feckin legs rested.
:

:-D :-D :-D.....

Ooo-err Island :-S

:-D :-D and Bell is mmn


not that I've been noseying…. :-D

Yes Island

Not many girls with the middle name Bradley :-D :-D

Ah...before you all snuggle down may I say - Kyle is a fella! I thought you were all crack genealogists :-0 :-D

Let's put this one to bed.

:-P :-D

:-D :-D who you calling thick :-D :-D

Its a good thing that you have a thick skin :-D

Kay I won't lose any sleep over the personal insults aimed at me, but Kyle didn't know that. Many people would have been very hurt by the sheer anger and hatred that suddenly erupted from Kyle.

The reactions from others; including PM's sent to me from other members; reflect the hatred (no that isn't too strong a description) aimed at a total stranger.

Kyle is more than welcomed back if they respect all other members, we can all disagree at times but swearing and personal insults are not required.

sorry, Kay

I dont think having a go at Kay is right
She is entitled to her opinion as we all are
Lets all agree to differ

Shall we just leave it now :-( :-(

Making a point and having an opinion isn't -"beating up "fgs.


See I rest my case...…….

Kay ........

you are now beating on us for responding to something that was an immediate response to a vile posting.

Are you taking it on yourself to correct our behaviour.

It's getting to be cat calling the kettle black!!

ONE comment from you would have been enough.

and how many does it take to change a light bulb,,,,,,,,


just look at some of your replies. everyone got a stick and had a whack...…..I did see the post,but I'm confident Caroline would have handled it with good grace.

Kay, I think you missed the point. This was not a case of a simple misunderstanding. Yes, Kyle misunderstood Caroline's post but her reaction to it was horrible and vile. Did you even read it?
To use the excuse of being immature and stupid doesn't hold water with me. Yes, I was once immature and stupid but I would never have used the kind of language that Kyle used against someone who was trying to help her.

Did you see Kyle's now deleted rant, Kay?

It may well have been a misunderstanding/misreading on Kyle's part, but the attitude and language in their response was certainly both immature and stupid, unneccessary and foul.

A misunderstanding is not immature or stupid,,,,,it is what is is a misundertaning of a misread reply,,,,and it doesn't take the young to act stupid.even if they don't feel silly.


;-).


It wont matter if Kyle feels they were hasty I doubt they will be back after that verbal beating.

:-)

Again thanks for the support I'm guessing Kyle; if looking in; is feeling a tad silly right now for the misunderstanding. Let's just let it ride off into the sunset so to speak. I'm hoping it was just an immature reaction, and we were all young and "stupid" once.

If though this becomes a habit then there's an issue.... :-)

and why did it take an army of interfering to deal with it,

reading these 2 threads is like watching someone walk down a street and each house throwing a pee pot out the window on someone that stepped on a neighbours cats tail.

people are able to deal with things by themselves......and should be left as such as too many pokey fingers make thing seem and look much worse.