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Winter Drawers Ever Near

Winter Drawers Ever Near Report 27 Nov 2007 23:31

Wasn't a BNP supporter that pm'd you was it by any chance?

A distinct lack of education me thinks. Bet they couldn't even spell the swear words correctly.

Aileen xxx

Winter Drawers Ever Near

Winter Drawers Ever Near Report 27 Nov 2007 23:37

Oops..... have I killed the wrong thread?

Aileen xxx

eRRolSheep

eRRolSheep Report 27 Nov 2007 23:38

work? WORK? sheesh I worked a full week last year when I went on the Oprah Winfrey show and they paid me.
I also get five billion krona or pounds or Euro a week just for signing on!
OK so I supplement it but hey ho - doesn't everyone need tictacs?

Maddiecow

Maddiecow Report 27 Nov 2007 23:45

I hate to poop on the the party but I got that 4 letter word in the morning so will retire to my bed shortly.

Maddiecow

Maddiecow Report 27 Nov 2007 23:51

Thanks CB gonna finish me smoke and glass of wine before off.

Winter Drawers Ever Near

Winter Drawers Ever Near Report 28 Nov 2007 00:05

Errol, don't do that! Changing your name.

I have a smudge on my glasses and the p in ship read like a t!

Tsk.

Aileen xxx

Steve

Steve Report 28 Nov 2007 07:51

Errol, I'm not excusing anyone swearing at you but it's wrong to suggest that swearing demonstrates low intelligence,. I have a high IQ but also a colourful vocabulary! Sometimes nothing fits like a four letter word.

Camille

Camille Report 28 Nov 2007 08:03

I have to agree with Lady N. that bad language has no connection with ones IQ. Did anyone hear Stephen Fry speaking on this very subject ?

Lulli

Maddiecow

Maddiecow Report 28 Nov 2007 08:08

I cant say I agree. From he examples I have seen on the threads when they become abusive there is certainly not an intelligent person behind the posts.

The abuse I have seen stems from what appears to be a frustrated person or persons unable to express themselves in any other way and even then the sentances do not make sence.

And its not typos' I am talking about - I am as guilty of them as the next man / woman.

Anyway have to dash or ill be late for the 4 letter word.

~Twiglet~

~Twiglet~ Report 28 Nov 2007 08:16

Have been guilty of using bad language myself,,,, not proud of it, but wouldnt say I was unintelligent.... however sending a pm with foul language is for one purpose only to cause insult and upset, forward it to abuse is what I would say........

Lin in Sussex

Lin in Sussex Report 28 Nov 2007 08:23

I will apologise in advance as I tend to use ' colourful ' language but not on here.
I too have a reasonable intelligence but sometimes those naughty words can express more than an every day word.
On occassions when trying to describe people the only way for me express exactly what I mean is to use an expletive.

Lin x

Catherine from Manchester

Catherine from Manchester Report 28 Nov 2007 08:26

That's awful Errol that you have been subjected to this bad language-not on at all.
report it and them.
catherine
xx

ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom

ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom Report 28 Nov 2007 08:33

It all depends on the reason for the bad language

If its a friend pming you to let off steam about something, fair enough ..no problem with that.

If its an abusive email having a pop at you with bad language its personal and should be reported to abuse with a request for the person to be blocked.

James

James Report 28 Nov 2007 08:36

I believe it is an offence to transmit swearing/bad language by E.Mail, telephone, CB radio letters etc

James

Camille

Camille Report 28 Nov 2007 08:38

Just wanted to clarify my previous post , my point was , the use of swear words do not indicate a lack of intelligence or a good vocabulary. However abuse is a different issue entirely and for that there is no excuse for being abusive either on the boards , pm's or by any other means

Lulli x

~Twiglet~

~Twiglet~ Report 28 Nov 2007 08:40

Agree with you there Lulli.....x

Forgetmenot

Forgetmenot Report 28 Nov 2007 08:46

Ditto Lin in Sussex.

As you well know I too use 'the odd swear word' Lol


I don't believe anyone lacks intelligence just because they use a 4 lettered word.
Having said that, I think PM's are personal, it's not for all to see, if it was abusive to you personally Errol then report it, if it was just in general in the PM then I think ignore it or tell the person not to use those sort of words to you in PM again if it upsets you.

Gillie XX

Glenys the Menace!

Glenys the Menace! Report 28 Nov 2007 19:17


I use colourful language at times, to my shame, when I'm really cross about something. But I was told by a colleague years ago that "people swear because they have limited vocabulary". She herself was told this by her mother.
Um, I think the mother had a point, and these days I try to remember what she said! lol
Seriously though P., I agree with others that this should be reported. You do not warrant that language.
x

Jude(sarf wales) 7602736

Jude(sarf wales) 7602736 Report 28 Nov 2007 19:32

l too have been known to use swear words (sometimes with great satisfaction!!! lol), l'm not always the brightest of people, but l'm not really stupid eaither - so swearing to me has nuffink to do with your intelligence, thats just an old wives tale. Ignorance yessss!!!! but then l'm not ignorant either,so it must be complete lack of respect!!!!!!!

jude sarf wales :o))))

X Lairy- Fairy

X Lairy- Fairy Report 28 Nov 2007 19:36

Errol why anyone would send u a naughty word pm is beyond me ..
Rosex