General Chat

Oh Gill I can't understand why certain people are hounding you. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.
Seems every time you take a break and come back as your confidence grows out they come again. Please email me if you want to talk you have my address xx

Mary is back on her computer at home. But she has the kids as her daughter is away. So we will have Mary back very soon xx

Betty, no he is doing it to make things easier for mum, but forgetting (no not bothering) to hide himself from visitors. Mum doesn't seem to realise people just don't want to sit there while he wees.
She isn't senile, but it beggars belief.

Feel shaky today as have to travel to Skeg about 45 miles, and its the day where a mate swapped cars to save me going in the same car as Barb or on my own.

Love to you all xx

I won't be posting for a while as I am to be the butt of everybody joke on here, I could say a lot about certain people but they are following me about and will report.

This is an anxiety thread I joined to be able to talk to you all but they will not allow it, I am to have no one and I give in to them.....but what goes around comes around.

I hope they stay away from all of you peeps because you are the decent ones on the boards that should be allowed to talk to one another - I am to be ostracised.

I have checked the T&C's and have not broken any rules by this post just said what has upset me like we all do on this thread.

I hope you all feel better soon.

Goodbye

Gill

Poor you Betty, hope you manage to sort your tree out - it's so annoying when you make an error and can't see how to correct it. I am sure someone will be able to help but it would be the blind leading the blind if I were to even try lol
Carole, you don't have to speak with my accent, lol Just tell her in Carole-speak!

Hi Jules, and all, I think our MaxiMary might appear soon, I have these powers that tell me the future sometimes lol

Happy Wednesday folks, or whatever day it is where you are lol

Lizxxxxx

Boo !!!! That's to Gill. Just kidding, I see you xxx

Elaine sorry today didn't bring such good news for you both. You must feel disappointed he has to go in again. Hope it's all done sooner rather than later so you can get him fit again xxx

Liz, dunno bout that there accent, don't suit meee. Oh that is bad! You're much better at it xxx

Dutch pm'ed you xx

Everyone else okay? xx

Just popped into say 'Hi' to everyone n sending {{{{{hugs}}}}} to those who'd like one.

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I know Gill, but I think several people are like me, get a bit snowed under with all the various posts and want to respond but lose their way when adding their own posts.
Take care
Lizxx

Afternoon everyone

Sorry to hear your news Twinkle, (((((((((((hugs))))))))))) for you.

I didn't mean you Liz

Take care everyone

Gill

Hi all, Dutch Joyce, welcome to our world lol

Twinkle, please don't be too worried, two of my relatives have pacemakers and are doing fine, one is 88 and the other 71! If it becomes necessary for your hubby to be fitted with one, it could be a new lease of life for him and therefore for you too. Hope the chats with your family will help you relax.

Gill, you aren't invisible, I can't always cope with answering everyone, my head is so stuffed with things sometimes the sorting mechanism goes on strike lol
That's why I try and add a general hello or hug or something, cos I hate not responding to everyone but can't always manage it. You stay positive and strong.

Hope your day has been better than you expected Carole, did you like the Norfolk accent lol?

Hugs for everyone,
Lizxxx

afternoon all well just got back from hospital and not so good hubby has to go back in hospital in stoke as his heart rythem is not right and has low bp and slow pulse now he has to have what i call a kick start ,and if that dont work a pace maker fitted was hoping he would got the all clear today but that hasnt happend so am of for a cuppa and to calm down a little am all of a shake have just told grown up kids so im gona spend some time with them chatting il hopfully catch you all later xxx

Morning everyone

Hope you can all see my post as it seems I am invisable to some.

I hope today is a happy and painfree day for all

((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))

Take care

Gill

Hi Carole,plese send me your email address and will send you photo,its nice to see who were talking to,ive got afew of some of the ladies on here
Dutchxx

Come back to practise what Liz has told me to say.

Elaine know just how you feel, but also know you will be okay. (So will I). Hope you get some good news today xxx

Dutch Joyce you are very welcome here, it is so good of you to come and offer your support to us all.
I know you have enough problems of your own. Bless you. Hope to see you on here more, just to chat with us all, that would be nice. I feel I know all these people even though we have never met, and some I have never even seen. (Photos please, ask for my email address) That means you too Joyce. I have seen you mention your dil before, and your patience with her is worth all the gold in the world to her.

Any one want to see me on facebook? PM me.

xxxxxxx

GoodMorning All
I dont general come on this board,but no quite afew ladies on here,i just wanted to say if i can be of any help just say the word,my daughter in law suffers from depression and im not sure the name of the other she has,every thas to be put in certain places wont let any do the dishes,as they have to be put certain way,her mother just dos,nt want to no whats wrong,she called her daughter stupid little girl theres nothing wrong with you,well her daughter got mad and told her to leave and she said ,before you go joyce meaning me is more like mum than m.i.l,she rings if im not well sends flowers if im at my lowest what do you do nothing,if i was there i would belt her mum i dont like the woment one bit,my d.i.l goes to see physicist and the problem is ,m.d.l wants to no why shes not getting any love from her mother its what she needs and dos,nt get any,i think that people should be more understanding to try to understand what people are going thru,its not the dark ages anymore,but i.ll support anyone here who needs it as if you care about people which i do,then you,ll try to understand what there going thru,take care all
Dutchxx

morning all ,carole hugs to you love and i mean that xxx well i havent slept very well have been up since 5 ,drinking tea and just sitting around ,might be to do with us going hospittal today hubby got 2 appiontments one with heart surgion to see the results of his echo and a heart cheak up to find out if the second procedure he done has worked (af ablation )as well as merchanical valve so fingers crossed ,then to see nurolagist about his eperlpsy just routine ,so we are going to have dinner there save coming home and going back thisafternoon so will let you no the results later please keep your fingers crossed all is normal i am a bit jittery shakey and running loo nerves i think hugs to all elaine x

Carolina !!! Hello my lovely. What time do you call that? xx

Liz I just woke up with the most awful tummy ache.
(Been to loo). Hope it isn't the start of it today. Not looking forward to work I must admit. Will note what you told me. Thank you for your support xxx

hi just to let you know im still around and looking in

love and hugs to all
carolina xx

Carole, it's sad to have your Dad not behaving like your Dad, if you know what I mean. I do hope things don't get too difficult for you all - feel sad for your poor Dad and for you too.

I hope you can put up with seeing B and don't let her say a thing wrong! Remember I am on your shoulder, here's what I will tell you to say so you can practice lol Think of me saying this with my (slight) Norfolk accent lol

If/When she says anything to you about last week,or tries to be sarcastic etc, say 'You do not have the right to speak to me or others in the way you do, so if you cannot be pleasant and polite please don't bother to say anything! ' (You can say it in your voice, not my Norfolk one lol) Don't enter into an argument or slanging match with her, just turn your back on her if possible and ignore her.
Don't forget, I am on your shoulder! No trembling or I will wobble off.



I am very tired so apologies that I can't respond to all of you tonight. Thanks to all who have contacted me privately about my friend, I will get round to responding.

Lizxxxx

Hi everyone.
Liz special loving thoughts to you at this sad time.xx

Betty lovely pm, thanks. Dad is home but I was so embarrassed Sunday when he decided to have a wee, and got his penis out in front of me and my sister and my oh. My oh said thats not very nice in front of your daughters, but I know he didn't like it either. Dads brain just isn't the same since his stroke and it gets worse.

B wasn't at work today so tomorrow will be the first time I'll see her since last weeks words. We are working near her home, and last time we were there she asked us all back to hers at lunch time.
Hope she won't do the same tomorrow.

Deanna we are missing you love. Come back all is forgiven xxx

Caz Y sending you lots of healing thoughts, are you getting them? xx

Dave hows that job going ? x

Eileen thinking of you and your family xx

Mary, are you getting back on an even keal? xx

Carolina how are you all ?xx

Janet, Sharron, Sue, Elaine, Christine, Paula, Claire,
Caz C, Ben, Angela, Jules,

Kathy, how are you getting on with the kitchen? xx

Gail do I owe you a reply? xx
Thanks for the pictures you sent me

Joyce so pleased I made you laugh xx

Bed time, I need my beauty sleep xxx

Quiet day, he managed to cycle to his father's with the birthday gift, but had to get his dad to bring his bike and him back in the car lol

He went to bed early after his dinner, as he didn't feel well. I wonder why?

Lizxx

Carole, so sorry I didn't acknowledge your thread.

I wish I could offer some thoughts on the subject of that horrible woman, can you not all get together and show a united front against her by alll making a complaint about her together? She should not be allowed to talk to people the way she does and get away with it.

Last night, or should I say, this morning was not as I expected.
The idiot arrived home in a dreadful state, was ill - luckily I managed to get a bucket under his chin almost in time so the chair was saved, I can't begin to tell you the disgust I felt and told him so. I ran him a bath but he didn't get in, I sat up reading etc for a couple of hours or more as didn't want to come down and find he had choked in the chair (I wish - couldn't have coped with the hassle) and finally went to bed at about 5am, (without my stint on here) He came up about 6 but I wouldn't let him in the bed till he had had a good wash, and stayed right away from him. I woke about ten and reminded him he told his father he would be there at 11 and it's a good half hour cycle ride. A cup of tea was brought up to me altho I didn't really wake up properly and when I woke and came down at 12 he had gone out, note saying he had gone to his fathers. I rang there and told his father what had happened so he could quiz him a bit without him knowing I had called, and hope his father can get him to see his doc and admit he is an alcoholic. Don't hold out much hope tho. His father said he had just arrived as we spoke so he did get there, I hope he feels awful.
Don't know if it was a taxi brought him home, can't believe the driver would have him in the car the state he was in.
One more nail in his coffin, in both ways of thinking about it.
Lizx