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There is a Harry J Lambeth in 1881 b 1836 Mile End BUT he is a Firewood Dealer. I suspect that the Hackney birth for Harriet is from this fa,mily but she is not with them 1881 and I cant find her even just using first name and flexible year and place of birth
If this is not her famiily and her father had died before 1881 her mother could have married again and children taken his name

I got Harriets marriage cert back today (marriage 1884). It has her as 21 yrs old, father Harry Lambeth - Carman (deceased). Can anyone help me find a death record for Harry. And any help finding them on the census (pre Harriets marriage) would be great.
I am a little confused by the age on the MC - according to the 1891 census she is 24, on 1901 census she is 36. I had assumed the birth record in this thread was correct but now I am having my doubts because of the age difference. Any help finding her as a child would be really appreciated

I can only assume that is the birth but Hackney is 16miles from Southall and Hounslow.....what worries me is that there are several people called Harriet Lambert - which sort of sounds the same

she married charles dallamore in 1884 kensington...........sorry for the delay

Who did she marry Stephen? Is this the birth?

Name: Harriet Lambeth
Year of Registration: 1868
Quarter of Registration: Jan-Feb-Mar
District: Hackney
County: Greater London, London, Middlesex
Volume: 1b
Page: 445

found her on birth index 1868 jan/feb/mar greater london, middlesex..........just not on census!!

well she's not on the Mormon LDS 1881 site

trying to find Harriet Lambeth on 1871 +1881 census (I have found her on later census when she is under her married name but cannot find her in 71 + 81)
according to the later census she was born c1866 in Hounslow Middlesex or Southall, Middlesex - depending on which one you read!
thank you