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Yes you told us you had the cert but that does not prove anything.

You say she lied about her age?

No parents names ? (there would only be her father anyway)

I take it the witnesses do not help at all?

jax

got marriage cert she got married in 1921 in burnly lancarshire to hemry buttler

there are also these 2

Births Jun 1898 (>99%)
Abbott Lilian May Hartismere 4a 851

Births Jun 1901 (>99%)
Abbott Lilian May Sculcoates 9d 261

Think she is listed as May in 1911.

Rose

No point buying the cert because how will you know if it is the correct Lilian?

There is a Lilian M Abbott who marries in Hinckley. Have you looked to find her in 1911?

Rose

It would have the mothers name not always the father if they were not married

jax

thank you do u think if i order the cert it will have a parents name on it? x

I would hazard a guess that this is her birth:-

Name: ABBOTT, Lilian May
Registration District: Hinckley
County: Leicestershire
Year of Registration: 1903
Quarter of Registration: Jul-Aug-Sep
Mother's Maiden Name: Not available before 1911 Q3
Volume No: 7A
Page No: 57

It is the only birth reference where the first name is spelt the same way as on the marriage reference and is the nearest one to Derbyshire (county borders sometimes change).

This is only a guess though.

Kath. x

Looks like you'll need to wait until the 1921 census is released.

Who were the witnesses to the marriage?

Rose

Her actual DOB should have been on the index for her death...........as it isn't, your chances of learning the truth are minimal

Name: Lillian May Butler
Birth Date: 1900
Date of Registration: Sep 1988
Age at Death: 88
Registration district: Worthing
Inferred County: West Sussex
Volume: 18
Page: 2001

England & Wales, Death Index: 1916-2005
about Lillian May Butler Name: Lillian May Butler
Birth Date: 1900
Date of Registration: Sep 1988
Age at Death: 88
Registration district: Worthing
Inferred County: West Sussex
Volume: 18
Page: 2001

Andy

Theres no births reg for Derbyshire.in that time frame 1900-1909

she died in littlehampton west sussex she was in a home around about 1988 havent got death cert yet she had a son who was very quite about it all as we seem think that he had a different dad to the other children and he took alot of things but he is dead now so he cant help and he told his wife nothing

If she lied about her age when she married...then her age at death will probably be incorrect too

jax

Please answer the question about her DEATH

cant find her on the census

where did they live? have you looked for deaths for them ?

Until her birth year is established, looking for her on a census is pointless

she got married on the 26/02/1921
and she had no parents names on there,
she said she was born 1900
but my nan said she told her that she lied about her age.

Have you found her on 1911 census ?