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Surname First name(s) Spouse District Vol Page

Marriages Mar 1916

Handford Frederick J S --- Cooper ---Fulham 1a 699

Cooper Ivy E E E ----Handford --- Fulham 1a _
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Death index?

Deaths Dec 1918

Handford Ivy E E --age 25 ---Kensington 1a 199
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But I'm not sure he would have been registered "Gay" if his mum was "Cooper"

Barbara x

Thanks your right Barbara that is her marriage but my Grandfather was born way before she married Handford.
This is all very hard to explain and it is many years of research Ivys mother died and it was thought that her sister Edith took on some of her children so that is why we are thinking it was Gay on the Cert. plus Edith was the one that took on the baby.

Hi Louise,

Can you tell us the name of the 2nd aunt mentioned on the Maternity Hospital report please?

I think it's very plausible that Ivy Cooper was the mother, although on both the 1901 and 1911 censuses she is still living with her father. On the 1911 she is a domestic servant living in Fulham, which tallies with Lily Gay being a mother's help in Fulham.

Maybe she gave the surname Gay as she knew her aunt would be adopting him.

Despite the reported mothers name and age of 16 my inclination would be that the most probable mother of the child would be Edith Louisa Florence Maud Gay. She would have been single and 19 years old at the time.

The basis for this being that in the 1911 census her parents record that their marriage has produced 2 children both of whom are still alive. In earlier (1891 and 1901) census records there is no evidence of their having a second child. It was certainly not unknown for grandparents to pretend that an illegitimate child of one of their own children was their own child. I am assuming therefore that the second child referred to in the 1911 census is indeed Frank Edwin Cecil. The fact that the child also was given the same forename as his father/grandfather (Sic 1911 census) at birth would appear to reinforce the fact that he was closely related to Frank Henry rather than an "Adopted" child.

1891:
Name: Frank Henry Gay
Age: 25
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1866
Relation: Head
Spouse's Name: Edith Louisa Gay
Gender: Male
Where born: Exeter, Devon, England
Civil parish: St Luke
Ecclesiastical parish: St Mary
Town: London
County/Island: London
Country: England
Street Address:

Occupation:

Condition as to marriage:

Education:

Employment status:

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Registration district: Holborn
Sub-registration district: City Road
ED, institution, or vessel: 1
Neighbors: View others on page
Piece: 231
Folio: 23
Page Number: 36
Household Members:
Name Age
Frank Henry Gay 25
Edith Louisa Gay 22
Edith Louisa Florence Maud Gay 2

1901:
Name: Frank H Gay
Age: 31
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1870
Relation: Head
Spouse's Name: Edith L Gay
Gender: Male
Where born: St Sidwells, Devon, England
Civil parish: Islington
Ecclesiastical parish: St Paul Balls Pond
County/Island: London
Country: England
Street Address:

Occupation:

Condition as to marriage:

Education:

Employment status:

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Registration district: Islington
Sub-registration district: Islington, South-East
ED, institution, or vessel: 1
Neighbors: View others on page
Household schedule number: 88
Piece: 186
Folio: 12
Page Number: 15
Household Members:
Name Age
Frank H Gay 31
Edith L Gay 30
Edith McGay 12

Christina that is what we were thinking that she gave the surname Gay as that was the Aunt that was going to raise the baby. The other Aunty that was mentioned in the report was Annie Cecilla Brazier nee Cleak.
Well Christina thats the thing Mrs Brazier was mention and her address which checks out to be Annie the other Aunty it doesn't give her name just an address which we are thinking is Edith but cant confirm.
Emily was Ivy's mother and there were only the three girls in the family.
Made sense to me that seeing Emily was dead that the Aunts took on the role of mother for her.

Jonesey Everyone that knew Edith Louisa said that she would not of taken on anyones baby it had to be someone that was related.
The reason that there was only one child mentioned until 1911 is that he was only born in 1908.

Just thought I should say thank you to everyone helping me I am very grateful to you all. Just dont know that I am ever going to work it all out though.

Hi Louise
Have you any ideas as to why Frank put "Edward Park / e Gay" ( Parke on Ancestry ---but could be just a curl at the bottom of the K ) on the 1911 census.

Could Edward have been born to a Park --Parke---Parker ?

There is this Edwards birth that I can;t find on 1911 census (nor can I find a death index for him )

Births Dec 1908
Parker Edward Hackney 1b 454

I have been looking for a Lily Parker to see if she will tie in with the Gay family---no luck yet but i'll keep trying.

When did your Grandfather go to Australia ?

Barbara x

Mrs Edith Louise GAY
Date of departure: 28 February 1928
Port of departure: London
Passenger destination port: Sydney, Australia
Date of Birth: 1872 (calculated from age)
Age: 56
Marital status: Married
Sex: Female
Occupation: Wife
Passenger recorded on: Page 14 of 24
Edward Frank GAY Page 18 of 24 (Upholsterer)
Frank Henry GAY Page 14 of 24 (Gatekeeper)
Ship:
Official Number:
Master's name:
Steamship Line:
Where bound:
Square feet:
Registered tonnage:
Passengers on voyage:
BELTANA
131853
Captain C H Allin
P & O Australia Via The Cape Service
Australia
21064
7974
671

(last address UK, as 62, St. James Road, Holloway N.7)

Chris :)

Thank you so much Chris. --same address as 1911 census

I just wondered if he had married in England or Australia I guess that answers that one .


Barbara x :-)

I don't suppose the Maternity Hospital report has the mother's signature on it, does it?

I know the names are different, but was wondering if the writing of that signature was anything like the signature on Ivy Cooper's marriage certificate.

Christina no there is no signature on the report from the Maternity Hospital I dont know if they would have that on record but nothing on the notes they are typed out.

Barbara no Edward wasn't married in England he was married in Australia several times and Barbara I have no idea why it has Edwards middle name as Parke or Park at first I thought it must of been just the writing and was meant to be Frank but it definately looks like Parke so I really dont understand that. So many secrets and so many lies.
So frustrating.
My sister and other family members have tried so many things and have been trying for many years.

Thanks again everyone.