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Jacqueline

Jacqueline Report 7 Nov 2014 14:49

No you weren't being stupid at all.

You were unsure, so you asked for clarification, which is very sensible :-)

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Trudy

Trudy Report 7 Nov 2014 14:32

I just thought id upset you by being stupid :-)

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Jacqueline

Jacqueline Report 7 Nov 2014 14:15

Not annoyed in the least - why on earth do you imagine I was?

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Trudy

Trudy Report 7 Nov 2014 13:48

thank you so much for your help you lot and for being patient with me,

trudy :-)

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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 7 Nov 2014 13:42

No Trudy his birth cert is correct his mums maiden name was Wicks but she had also been a lambert by marriage .

Not everyone volunteers that info when registering

No need to apologise we all started our family trees from scratch and have learned how things go as we get more experienced

I have been researching for 13 years and still find info that I wasnt aware of :-)

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Surname Fahse. Germany. Essex .South East London My avatar is one of our wedding photos of 1957

Trudy

Trudy Report 7 Nov 2014 13:40

sorry I wasn't understanding I get it now.

im sorry if I annoyed you :-(

trudy

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Jacqueline

Jacqueline Report 7 Nov 2014 13:31

NO

Your maiden name was the name you were born with, and if you have children that name is on their birth certs

If for any reason, you marry again, any children you have will have the same maiden name on their birth certs

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Trudy

Trudy Report 7 Nov 2014 13:28

thank you Shirley

so on my husbands birth certificate it should say lambert then instead of wicks?? is that right Jacqueline??

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Jacqueline

Jacqueline Report 7 Nov 2014 13:04

Maiden name is BIRTH name for a female

She ceases to be a maiden (in the legal sense) when she marries.

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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 7 Nov 2014 13:04

dont know if it helps but this is the correct spelling for Stephen /Steven

Births Jun 1962
LAMBERT Stephen A C WICKS Woolwich 5d 1390

not seeing his death

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Surname Fahse. Germany. Essex .South East London My avatar is one of our wedding photos of 1957

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 7 Nov 2014 12:42

she married Mr lambert in 1961

Marriages Sep 1961
WICKS Patricia J LAMBERT Woolwich

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Surname Fahse. Germany. Essex .South East London My avatar is one of our wedding photos of 1957

Trudy

Trudy Report 7 Nov 2014 12:17

oh ok thank you dea

trudy :-)

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Dea

Dea Report 7 Nov 2014 12:14

A birth cert will always give the mother's maiden name.

Sometimes, If the mother had been married before it will say something like (in this case), mother Patricia Brown, late Lambert, formerly Wicks.

It doesn't 'alway's mention the previous married names though.

Dea x

Trudy

Trudy Report 7 Nov 2014 12:02

I just dug out my husbands birth certificate and its says mothers name wicks.
silly question but what does that mean?? I stupidly thought it would say lambert.

trudy

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Trudy

Trudy Report 7 Nov 2014 11:48

that's true Jacqueline, just wondering do you think I should tell my husband or keep it to myself??
he didn't really have a good relationship with his parents.

trudy

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Dea

Dea Report 7 Nov 2014 11:44

Having looked again, I think the death I was looking at was for a different Alan R Lambert.

As has already been said - either one of them may not have been free to marry so they just lived together as man and wife.

I have not yet found a correct death for Alan.

Dea x

Jacqueline

Jacqueline Report 7 Nov 2014 11:44

Not really strange - co-habiting wasn't as unusual as you may think, although people were, of course, more discreet about it in past years.

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Jacqueline

Jacqueline Report 7 Nov 2014 11:43

Births Dec 1930 (>99%)
Brown Robert K Thomas Woolwich 1d 1418

Several possible siblings..............

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Trudy

Trudy Report 7 Nov 2014 11:41

I think your right Jacqueline
patricia was an only child and Robert had siblings but they never spoke so prob no use there either,
umm very strange if you ask me and their my in-laws lol.

trudy :-)

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Jacqueline

Jacqueline Report 7 Nov 2014 11:38

I think you may have to accept that they didn't marry, but as they are both dead, you can't ask them, obviously.

Did either of them have siblings who are living?

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