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Help - Am I my own third cousin once removed??

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Selena in South East London

Selena in South East London Report 29 Jun 2006 17:03

My grandparents were first cousins (their mothers were sisters). My grandparents did not marry but my father was their illegitimateson. I have spent hours on FTM trying to work out the family relationships. Can anyone help? Selena

Selena in South East London

Selena in South East London Report 29 Jun 2006 17:05

It comes out as I am my own third cousin once removed. My daughters come out as 4th cousins as well as sisters. What relationship am to my grandad? What relationship am I to my dad? Help! Selena

Dizzy Lizzy 205090

Dizzy Lizzy 205090 Report 29 Jun 2006 17:09

I do not see how you can be once removed from yourself when you are of the same generation descended from each cousin. (That sounds complicated but I know what I mean). Liz

Dizzy Lizzy 205090

Dizzy Lizzy 205090 Report 29 Jun 2006 17:11

The ancestor you are descended from through both grandparents is your 2g-grandfather, therefore you are your own 3rd cousin. Your children are 4th cousins to each other. I have this in my family as my great-grandparents were first cousins, and my ftm worked it out that I am my own 4th cousin. Liz

Selena in South East London

Selena in South East London Report 29 Jun 2006 17:22

Thanks Liz. I wonder where I went wrong! I'll go back and have another look. Selena

Selena in South East London

Selena in South East London Report 29 Jun 2006 17:24

Okay, my daughters are my 3rd cousins once removed! No wonder I am confused.

Selena in South East London

Selena in South East London Report 29 Jun 2006 20:18

Thanks Christine, I will print that and keep it to explain to the family. Kids think its funny (should I say my cousins) but my husband doesn't believe me and thinks its impossible. Selena