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Sad when grandparents turn their back on grandkids
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Elizabeth2469049 | Report | 15 Dec 2013 15:59 |
Grandparents are such a valuable part of the family - mine were lovely - now as great-grandparents we were all thrilled with the 4-generation photographs, and my granddaughter had a special print made of the 4-generation photograph taken when she was born (and incidentally asked about putting her son on my family tree!). They all I think value the extra dimensions to the family, and it is really sad when the grandparents don't realise the value of these additions they themselves started |
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Dermot | Report | 15 Dec 2013 15:56 |
Very sad indeed - the agony & ecstacy of motherhood. |
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jax | Report | 15 Dec 2013 15:47 |
My daughters baby has not met her grandparents on her fathers side.....She split up with boyfriend when she found out she was expecting. The babies father is now involved with the baby but his father wants a DNA test first (even though baby is the spitting image of her dad) and his mother has said she has a granddaughter, she doesn't need another. |
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KempinaPartyhat | Report | 15 Dec 2013 15:33 |
Thats good really |
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RStar | Report | 15 Dec 2013 15:14 |
lol Shirley, 'state visit'. :-D oh well there's nowt as queer as folk!! x |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 15 Dec 2013 15:11 |
That very sad but its her loss!! |
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RStar | Report | 15 Dec 2013 14:41 |
I suppose so Ginnie. I dont live too near her so I wouldnt even expect anything from her, babysitting etc. Always coped alone as not had family anywhere near. Would have been nice if she'd just acknowledged her grandchildren/Godchildren really, we didnt expect anything more from her. Having our own little party when he clears off to his mothers, food, dancing and fun :) |
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JustGinnie | Report | 15 Dec 2013 14:36 |
It's a mystery to me, I only had one grandparent alive when I was born but she was a loving one although she was a bit of a matriarch. |
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Maddie | Report | 15 Dec 2013 14:31 |
How sad, but remember she is the one missing out. Don't let it get you down. Have a great Christmas with hubby and kids, they are most important. |
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RStar | Report | 15 Dec 2013 14:19 |
My own grandparents (mums dad and stepdads parents) were amazing, loving and lovely. I miss them. But my children arent so lucky with half their grandparents not seeing them. I dont understand it - when I have grandkids, if Im lucky enough, I'll love them so much. Husbands mother is having a party (nobody's mentioned her for so long I forgot she was alive) but not invited us. Husband will still go, me and kids wont. Best thing about it is, she left her kids when they were young and still took the child benefit, meaning my husband had to help support the family at a young age. I asked her to be Godmother to the kids, hoping to get her to be more involved, she has nothing to do with us! Bizarre. Apart from random messages on facebook about how proud she is of her OTHER son for racing a bike, we'd forget she exists. I dont understand how people can cut children from their lives yet expect everyone to respect and worship them on demand. |