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she would be nuts to take back a control freak like him
I wish her well in her whole new life of freedom :-D :-D

UPDATE He still being a royal pain. He not seen the boy ever week, he picked the day he see them when they were at court he asked to change it which she did and he still doe not see them for 3 hour a week. Last week he phone and said that he got a women and she moving in with him and he wants my daughter, my husband the boys and myself to go out for dinner with him and her. My daughter asked how long he has know this women 2 months she told him that until he see the boys 0ne a week she did not think it is a good thing for the boy to meet her, he when mad at this. as she said he has not know this women very long. Grandson number 2 is under the children hospital in London we live in the north but the doctors here wanted this. they are not sure how to treat him, he does not go with them to any hospital appointment but he is now saying there is nothing wrong with grandson 2 His doctors have said if he took the time to came he know what I wrong with his child ,but he know better then them. Today he has said he wont a court order to stop her taking him to the hospital, but some day he is in so much pain he can not walk. He has said that the child as he call him needs to be in school we know this, but when he can not walk what can we do. My daughter may not be able to work anymore, her work are not happy about the amount of time she needs of work because of his illness. He never take time of work to help when his child Is ill. My daughter apply for DLA but did not get it we have been told she is to reapply for it by the hospital, and that she needs to be there when he is in hospital. Grandson 1 does not wont to see his dad he has learning problems ,but is doing well, bless him. MY husband and myself found that this is affecting our lives but we will keep doing what we can. It feels like we are bring up our grandsons in some way but we get the good time as well as the bad. Grandson 1 said today my granddad the best in the world he know how to do everything. We will see what happen when we go back to court next month. By the way dad did not go into school today for father day, but granddad took some time of work to go in for them so they had someone. We will see what time brings

bloody hell .sorry for the words but what a manipulative bar steward he is .

sadly the only way is to try and be one step ahead of him at all times

Grandson 2 wouldn't be at the london Hospital unless the doctors felt that was where he needs to be so the PAIN has no say over the matter.

Must be stressful all round BUT if the pain isnt complying with the court orders he has no comeback

we have been there ,got the teeshirt with our step grandson His mum too is a manipulative pain that daughter has been at the end of of 12 years. Even the social services are now saying they cant work with the mum. Thankfully legal aid is no longer available for these type of cases and SHE went from solicitor to solicitor trying to get them to bow to her wishes . When a solicitor got wise to her antics she left em and started over again with a new one who thought she was the hard done by mum

its very wearing
:-( :-( :-(

Shirley so may learn to easy to work the system to their advantage
wasting courts time
and the only ones who get really hurt are the children :-( :-(

Joy

Our daughter and SIL were so concerned about his son and his prospects that at the concerns of the social services ,and why didnt he go for custody ,they decided as newly weds to go for custody.

Not an easy decision as our daughter is older than SIL and has two grown children

The mum had legal aid cos lazy cow has never worked. Daughter and SIL both workers had to hire a lawyer and then pay for barristers at court . Cost them over £13000 to get the lad but the mum has never stopped harassment since,

EVEN when our daughter got Hodgkins and had six months chemo and 5 years follow up the mum tried to get him back through the back door and yet another solicitor who didnt know the background.

Its now come to a point when they have had to say enough and stop her access cos she was mind manipulating the lad who has learning difficulties and making his choose even tho he LOVES our daughter to bits .

These type of people have no conscience of their actions on the child/children THEY just want to point score and be top dog

sadly its all about control Shirley my heart goes out
to anybody who is doing what's best for the children
and the other partners scoring points not thinking of the children at all

some parents where born to be good parents and sadly some not :-(