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So caring,my OH
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wisechild | Report | 15 Dec 2014 14:53 |
He came home on Saturday night at 1.30 am after a session with his mate & got all a***y because I complained that he had woken me up. |
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AnnCardiff | Report | 15 Dec 2014 15:18 |
can't think what to say, other than I would not be putting up with such childish behaviour |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 15 Dec 2014 15:23 |
I would of replied |
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Dermot | Report | 15 Dec 2014 15:24 |
Cruel people lack compassion. |
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Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it | Report | 15 Dec 2014 15:55 |
My instinctive reply would have been "well clear it up then !!!!" |
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Denburybob | Report | 15 Dec 2014 19:29 |
If my wife decides not to talk to me, I say, well just let me know when you are. After this I ignore her completely, until she asks, are you not talking to me! I can't win. Bob |
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LadyScozz | Report | 15 Dec 2014 20:13 |
My father was like that. |
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Annx | Report | 15 Dec 2014 20:21 |
I'd be tempted to say 'when you feel like talking, maybe I'll feel like cooking.......and washing, and ironing again'. My OH is too cheerful and chatty to do 'silent'. My dad was a master at it though and could keep it up for as long as 3 weeks, with us children relaying messages. Him and mum are buried in different counties! |
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Kay???? | Report | 15 Dec 2014 20:33 |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 15 Dec 2014 22:13 |
I feel for you, my o.h. is a bit like that, but usually falls asleep soon after a tirade and is all smarmy when he wakes, which is when I go into silent mode. One of these days....hurry up lottery win, so I can tell him where to stick his temper. |
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lavender | Report | 15 Dec 2014 23:16 |
I'm with Kay! |
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GlasgowLass | Report | 15 Dec 2014 23:17 |
I feel for anyone in such a cruel, selfish situation, and my dad wasn't much better either. |
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Tenerife Sun | Report | 15 Dec 2014 23:24 |
Wisechild I realise that it isn't easy to leave and go your own way even if you wanted to. Just do your best to completely ignore him. Xx |
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ChrisofWessex | Report | 15 Dec 2014 23:32 |
Don't speak to him at all when he arrives home drunk - ignore him. |
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Denburybob | Report | 16 Dec 2014 19:58 |
My wife would be wasting her time threatening to stop cooking. She is an awful cook and I do most of it. I can also iron, and I do a lot of the housework. I am almost perfect really!!! We have been married nearly 35 years and rub along quite nicely. Bob |
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Denburybob | Report | 16 Dec 2014 20:01 |
Oh, I almost forgot, I am frequently mistaken for George Clooney. Bob (the liar!) |
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AnnCardiff | Report | 16 Dec 2014 20:02 |
I can see the resemblance immediately - George has got a tie just like yours!!! |
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Kay???? | Report | 16 Dec 2014 21:04 |
Keep saying ignore isnt helping ,it just impounds the childish problem,while anyone can stay in silent mode towards someone they care about,then take up to speaking when they feel enough punishment has been dished out and then expect to carry on as though nothing as happend, is abuse of someones feelings. |
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Denburybob | Report | 17 Dec 2014 20:30 |
If George Clooney has a tie just like mine, he must have been in the same Regiment. By the way, all my comments regarding my marriage are all tongue in cheek. My wife can give as good as she gets and we often bounce off each other. We have had some funny looks in shops when we are in good form. Bob |