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Calling The 19th Century
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+++DetEcTive+++ | Report | 8 Jul 2015 23:58 |
It seems that many young women of today still want to assume their husband's name. We've attended 3 marriages either of relatives, or the daughters of close friends, all of whom became Mrs (husband's name). |
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Island | Report | 8 Jul 2015 23:36 |
Why can't boys change their names? :-S Anybody can change their name. |
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**Stella ~by~ Starlight**★..★..★ | Report | 8 Jul 2015 23:34 |
I am the last one in my genealogical line,there are no males to carry on my maiden name. |
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Linda | Report | 8 Jul 2015 23:26 |
I could not wait to get rid of my maiden name it was very common not that I am a snob at least us girls can change our names unlike the boys, I don't know any man that have taken the wife's name on marriage because of any boys they might have carrying on the name |
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Sharron | Report | 8 Jul 2015 22:17 |
I am Ms and always have been. |
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Florence61 | Report | 8 Jul 2015 22:08 |
Well when i married in 1993, i too had the word "obey "removed as i made it clear then he didnt own me, couldnt own me and never would. It raised a few eyebrows up here but i stood my ground. Im also known as Mrs( my initial) and his surname not by Mrs (his initial )and surname which some do. |
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ChrisofWessex | Report | 8 Jul 2015 19:37 |
I have a British friend who in spite of living in Germany for over 34 years when marrying a German - he took her surname- she said he preferred hers to his surname. |
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SuffolkVera | Report | 7 Jul 2015 14:59 |
I don't know any couples where the man has taken the wife's name, though I am sure there are some, but I know a lot of couples in all age groups where the wife has kept her own name. |
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Dermot | Report | 7 Jul 2015 13:43 |
'Britain has now the highest percentage of inter-racial marriages in the world'. |
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Tawny | Report | 7 Jul 2015 13:43 |
When my sister got married she was known by colleagues all over the UK as Miss Owl so it was easier for her to keep her own maiden name. My mother did take my fathers but then she didn't like her own. My other half and I never married so I have never had another name other than one I was born with. |
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LadyScozz | Report | 7 Jul 2015 13:05 |
I married DH when I was 36. |
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SheilaSomerset | Report | 7 Jul 2015 13:01 |
Any man with that attitude wouldn't have survived one date, let alone marriage! |
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Island | Report | 7 Jul 2015 12:56 |
No-one wants to take up my point of the vast majority of women automatically becoming Mrs His Name? |
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Sharron | Report | 7 Jul 2015 11:21 |
Your ex's view was enshrined in law until the 'Married Woman's Property Act' of the late 19C. |
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Guinevere | Report | 7 Jul 2015 05:36 |
I'd have gone crazy without a career. My brain began to turn to mush after 8 months not working, so I taught adults at night school until our son started school then I went back to work, part time at first. |
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LadyScozz | Report | 7 Jul 2015 05:34 |
that would have been my father's attitude |
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Bobtanian | Report | 7 Jul 2015 00:26 |
My missis didn't need to work, but she did, when she needed to......in fact her early wages helped buy our first car........I preferred her to look after the children, and the home...........fortunately I earned enough money for her NOT to have to work, outside of the home.......we must have been doing something right, for 55 years........ |
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Linda | Report | 6 Jul 2015 23:08 |
My ex son in law once said to me a womans place is behind the kitchen sink and my mother had five of us and your daughter is going to have five children, she had three, one night I was waiting for a bus who should walking towards me holding hands with this young girl but son in law daughter saw sence and got rid |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 6 Jul 2015 22:53 |
I enjoyed not going out to work when my children were small - but as we lived in the middle of nowhere, and I don't drive, working was a bit difficult! I also breastfed my children, which saved money!! |
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LaGooner | Report | 6 Jul 2015 22:15 |
The opening post was the sort of thing my Ex would say. You didn't marry him after I walked out on him did you Tawny :-0. He was an arrogant nasty, vicious controlling brute to boot . :-P :-P :-P :-P. New hubby the complete opposite I am glad to say |