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Dermot

Dermot Report 19 Sep 2015 21:33

So perhaps that's why P3 was discontinued.

Guinevere

Guinevere Report 19 Sep 2015 21:07

... and just there for men's pleasure.

Bobtanian

Bobtanian Report 19 Sep 2015 20:51

as bob says, I also consider that this procedure denies women pleasure from sex and as such are purely baby making machines........

Dermot

Dermot Report 19 Sep 2015 19:59

The law has been seen as a protector of individual rights in this part of the modern world.

Occasionally, laws are misunderstood & therefore misapplied. Nevertheless, the law must be fair & practical. It must respect the person regardless of any pomp or privilege they may or may not enjoy in society. And it is vital that justice is administered in some form, evenly & fairly for all.

°o.OOº°‘¨Claire in Wales¨‘°ºOO.o°

°o.OOº°‘¨Claire in Wales¨‘°ºOO.o° Report 19 Sep 2015 19:28

Link contains sketches of 3 different types of procedures.

http://www.dofeve.org/types-of-fgm.html

Guinevere

Guinevere Report 19 Sep 2015 19:14

If you read the link I posted it says it's to keep them virgins until marriage and faithful after marriage. It also makes sex more pleasurable for men, apparently.

Denburybob

Denburybob Report 19 Sep 2015 19:04

Although this thread seems to have wandered off a bit, can I stick my two-penn'orth in? I may be wrong, but I think that FGM prevents women getting any pleasure from sex. Could it be that men like their women like that so that they, (men) don't have to put any effort in to sex. Wham bam thankyou ma'am, and that is it? Only a theory of course.

Mayfield

Mayfield Report 19 Sep 2015 17:52

My view would be if you don't want a wife as nature made her stay single!

Newby

Newby Report 19 Sep 2015 17:49

Additionally there were cultural concerns that the girls' future prospects of being regarded as a good catch for arranged marriages might be damaged." .
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Arranged marriages for those who do not want to comply is a deprevation of human rights... sexual abuse and slavery

ANY woman , of any religious persuasion SHOULD NOT be subjected to any form of an arranged marriage without their complete consent

nameslessone

nameslessone Report 19 Sep 2015 17:34

What happened to being equal in the eyes of the law?

Mayfield

Mayfield Report 19 Sep 2015 17:22

The authorities are running scared of the ethnic PC brigade! :-P

Guinevere

Guinevere Report 19 Sep 2015 16:19

Paedophiles don't think they'll get caught. They focus on what they can find or get access to.

Annx

Annx Report 19 Sep 2015 14:56

So if there are different sentences according to which girls they abuse, which girls will paedophiles focus on in the future? It doesn't take much working out does it? You end up with a bigger deterent for abusing Asian girls than for abusing British girls. Gives out all the wrong messages.

Guinevere

Guinevere Report 19 Sep 2015 14:52

wisechild, it's actually quite rare in Asian families.

Here is the distribution

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prevalence_of_female_genital_mutilation_by_country

Guinevere

Guinevere Report 19 Sep 2015 14:25

FGM predates Islam. It was a cultural practice before Islam was introduced. In parts of Africa Christians practice it as well.

°o.OOº°‘¨Claire in Wales¨‘°ºOO.o°

°o.OOº°‘¨Claire in Wales¨‘°ºOO.o° Report 19 Sep 2015 14:24

It's a crime in Egypt but it's estimated that over 90% of Egyptian women have been subjected to this practice.

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 19 Sep 2015 14:22

it's a crime over here

wisechild

wisechild Report 19 Sep 2015 14:03

FGM is still practised in Asian communities as well as African. It appears to be a mainly Muslim practise although if I´m wrong, I stand corrected.

badger

badger Report 19 Sep 2015 12:07

The law is the same for ALL,ethnic origines have no bearing at all ,Fred. :-|

Guinevere

Guinevere Report 19 Sep 2015 09:16

The women can't stop doing it. In that culture it is important for fathers to get their daughters married off so they stop being a drain on their resources. Men only want wives who have been "cut".

So fathers make their wives afflict FGM on their daughters. If they say no they get seven bells beaten out of them and the fathers get the grandmothers to do it. If they say no they get beaten as well.

It isn't that simple as the women saying no.