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Clearing my puter off
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 20 Apr 2016 12:09 |
I found this, not sure whether sharing is good, as I didn´t share then but here it is. .... |
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LadyScozz | Report | 20 Apr 2016 12:16 |
<3 <3 <3 |
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Sharron | Report | 20 Apr 2016 12:24 |
Uzzi, thank you for sharing that. |
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 20 Apr 2016 13:01 |
Sharron, thank you. I wasn´t sure about sharing it, still not if I am honest. I can hear my mother saying what are you doing, we don´t do this" well yes we do. don´t we ? |
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 20 Apr 2016 13:11 |
Thanks Ladyscozz trust me on my strength now, I have friends that I can call and an amazing other half who knows all about me and loves me regardless. <3 <3 |
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JemimaFawr | Report | 20 Apr 2016 13:18 |
<3 <3 <3 |
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Sharron | Report | 20 Apr 2016 13:29 |
Uzzi, I think you have put your finger on why you did it. The importance of what we do for propriety being greater than the importance of the feelings of a little girl. |
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 20 Apr 2016 14:47 |
You are probably right there Sharron in some ways, not in others, I think I know why I started to self harm and mother is never far from the equation. Why did I share this after so long Not sure. after all I can´t piss her off any more |
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Sharron | Report | 20 Apr 2016 15:19 |
You shared it because it is time and you are ready. |
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LaGooner | Report | 20 Apr 2016 15:55 |
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3. Uzzi and Sharron from one who knows what it is like |
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 20 Apr 2016 17:24 |
Sharron Thank you, As you say if our talking about things can help just 1 other, then talk away. |
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 20 Apr 2016 22:33 |
Lagooner I would say welcome to the club, we have our own badges, I will say well done for joining us here. |
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Sharron | Report | 20 Apr 2016 23:14 |
You may not believe it but it really wasn't your fault you know. |
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 20 Apr 2016 23:17 |
Sharron is that to me or Lagooner or both :-D |
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LaGooner | Report | 20 Apr 2016 23:21 |
We have all been in the same boat Uzzi. I still have scars physically as well as mentally courtesy of my so called Mother . The mental ones are the worst <3 |
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Sharron | Report | 20 Apr 2016 23:23 |
To the world. |
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Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond | Report | 20 Apr 2016 23:30 |
Jacqui, your experiences, hard as they were to cope with, have made you the person we know and care about now. You have found strength to cope with your past from the love you receive now, and the respect too. The same with others who go through such difficult times, hopefully when they find love and support it helps build strength and self esteem and life can change for the better. |
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Sylvia | Report | 20 Apr 2016 23:30 |
Uzzi, I think you are so brave for saying that. Years ago a friend of my daughters told me she self harmed in the same way as yourself. I had no idea as she is always so bubbly and smiling, on the outside such a happy girl. She had managed to stop doing it when she told me. She said she felt better for telling someone about it. Just shows that we never know what people have been/ going through and how much we can cover up.xx |
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Sharron | Report | 20 Apr 2016 23:34 |
It just never occurred to me to self-harm like that, in fact I had never heard of it happening until it was reported that the Princess of Wales had done it. |
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UzziAndHerDogs | Report | 20 Apr 2016 23:55 |
Lagooner like yourself my mental scars used to be worst than anything physical, personally I would rather cut my throat then go through the mental abuse again, But I did it and I am here now a bit tatty around the edges at times but then that just frames my personality, If sometimes I am a tad sarcastic, or harsh so what, walk a mile in the shoes I had before you judge me. |
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