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DO YOU THINK ???
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 21 Apr 2017 13:54 |
DO YOU THINK PAEDOPHILES CAN EVER BE REHABILITATED? |
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Caroline | Report | 21 Apr 2017 14:38 |
No, who would want to risk their child/Grandchildren living next door to a maybe reformed one ? |
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Sharron | Report | 21 Apr 2017 14:56 |
There are many paedophiles who recognize their predeliction as abhorrent and deliberately do not give in to it. They do not choose to be born that way. |
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Caroline | Report | 21 Apr 2017 15:00 |
Agreed, not a choice but wouldn't want one next to youngsters.....and yes I know many are never known to us you'd hardly shout it from the rooftops. Hopefully one day someone will find a solid way of "reforming" them but right now.... |
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Sharron | Report | 21 Apr 2017 15:11 |
I think there are probably many living next door to children but are no threat at all. It is just a thing they have, that they know is not right and which they control. |
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AnninGlos | Report | 21 Apr 2017 15:20 |
I suppose, in a broad sense, if you look at it as a form of mental health problem; is there not always a chance that something will 'kick off' their need to give in to their urges? I don't think any of us are qualified to say. I am not sure that I would be willing to take the risk of having them living near children. Which is also a worry when they are placed in the community and the community don't know. And I do realise that they would be in danger if some members of the community knew. A difficult question Joy. |
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Rambling | Report | 21 Apr 2017 15:33 |
In the sense that those who are able to realise that what they have done is wrong, they can then seek help/strategies not do it again. Sublimation of natural instinct in effect, I wouldn't say that is impossible in some cases. |
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RolloTheRed | Report | 21 Apr 2017 15:41 |
No but looking should be treated as a mental health issue. Prison is expensive, pointless it just makes things worse. The authorities must monitor and track them on a permanent basis. |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 21 Apr 2017 18:36 |
I personally think No too |
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Caroline | Report | 21 Apr 2017 19:06 |
A true case of ignorance is bliss, we all know in theory there is one living now near all of us but once you know it's totally different.... |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 21 Apr 2017 19:12 |
I think everybody's server provider |
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Caroline | Report | 21 Apr 2017 19:22 |
I'm guessing they won't freedoms and all that. |
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JoyBoroAngel | Report | 21 Apr 2017 19:31 |
I also think every child deserves the best Childhood possible |
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Sharron | Report | 21 Apr 2017 19:41 |
Maybe it was not having the best possible childhood that made them paedophiles. Should their parents be put on the oil rigs for depriving their own children of the childhood they should have had to develop an appropriate sexuality. |
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Sharron | Report | 21 Apr 2017 19:41 |
Maybe it was not having the best possible childhood that made them paedophiles. Should their parents be put on the oil rigs for depriving their own children of the childhood they should have had to develop an appropriate sexuality. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 21 Apr 2017 23:55 |
Many years ago, when I was an LSA at the local school, we had a case of a couple of paedo's luring young boys. |
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Sharron | Report | 22 Apr 2017 00:40 |
I have posted this story before. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 22 Apr 2017 00:52 |
I agree, Sharron, it is the job of the parent to protect their child, unfortunately, some parents are vulnerable themselves, just plain nasty, or unaware of what's going on, but the vulnerable child shouldn't be seen as a 'worthwhile' victim. |
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Sharron | Report | 22 Apr 2017 01:08 |
I knew a young man who committed suicide. Yes, he was a paedophile, just as his father had been. He knew nothing else. |
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supercrutch | Report | 22 Apr 2017 01:19 |
They should be treated and dealt with appropriately - read into that whatever you like. |
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