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Spoke to my Mum's GP today ... UPDATE (thank you a

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Mandy in Wiltshire

Mandy in Wiltshire Report 27 Jul 2006 19:26

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Mandy in Wiltshire

Mandy in Wiltshire Report 27 Jul 2006 19:26

He is a very kind man, as well as having been an oncologist for the last 7 years. Although we have to wait for the CT scan to confirm it for sure, he is 90% certain that the cancer has returned. We will soon start to have nurses in more regularly, and Mum will be given some palliative treatment. He has advised me not to bother moving house because, due to the average time that house moves take, it will be too late. I know that this happens, it’s life, and I know that my situation is no different than that of many of you. All I’m asking for, please, is for any prayers and positive thoughts that you can spare for my Mum, because I don’t want her to suffer and want her to be as comfortable as possible. Thank you all for your kindness, Mandy x

ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom

ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom Report 27 Jul 2006 19:28

Sending out all my love and positive thoughts for your mum and for you and your family {{{HUGS}}}} Elaine x

Elaine

Elaine Report 27 Jul 2006 19:29

Im so sorry Will think of your mum in my prayers (((hugs))) Love E x

Nana Anna

Nana Anna Report 27 Jul 2006 19:30

So sorry Mandy. Sending you positive thoughts for you and your Mum. Anna x

JenRedPurple

JenRedPurple Report 27 Jul 2006 19:30

I am sending out positive thoughts for you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Jen

Angela

Angela Report 27 Jul 2006 19:31

Its hard I know, but speaking from current experience try to cherish the time you have rather than mourn the time you don't have. You can mourn later but for now you have to live and love with your mum. Angela

Jess Bow Bag

Jess Bow Bag Report 27 Jul 2006 19:33

I dont know if you saw my thread earlier ~ i am so ' with you' in my heart. Its so very very hard watching those we love suffer. You will find the strength. Jess x

SheilaSomerset

SheilaSomerset Report 27 Jul 2006 19:34

Thinking of you and your family. Hugs, Sheila xx

Carolyn

Carolyn Report 27 Jul 2006 19:34

Sorry to hear that the prognosis for your mum is not good, I will be thinking of you. I think the worst thing about getting older ourselves is that we know our parents are getting even older (mine will both be 80 this year). Hope you can try to enjoy the time you've got left with them, that's what I intend to do. Carolyn

Annie

Annie Report 27 Jul 2006 19:36

will be thinking of you all ann xx

Anne in North London

Anne in North London Report 27 Jul 2006 19:36

Dearest Mandy, I can't think what to write. All I can say is make this as happy a time as you can. As you know I've been there. I will email you now. All our Love Anne xx

Michelle

Michelle Report 27 Jul 2006 19:38

Sending special thoughts to your Mam and you too. M.

Just

Just Report 27 Jul 2006 19:42

Mandy, Sending you lots of positive thoughts. It think Angela's words are very wise, enjoy the time you have now and treasure it. It's not going to be easy, so try and keep strong and sign in here when you need to talk. Take care and big hugs! Claire

Mandy in Wiltshire

Mandy in Wiltshire Report 27 Jul 2006 19:42

Thank you so much. I know that I'm very fortunate in that Mum has seen me into my 40s, and also seen her only grandchild right through from babyhood to almost 18. His only wish is that she is still able to celebrate his 18th birthday in October. I'm also so very glad that I gave up work, because now I can visit her every day. Love Mandy x

Joy

Joy Report 27 Jul 2006 19:44

Oh, I am sorry, Mandy. Keeping you and your Mum and all your family in my thoughts. Joy

Mags

Mags Report 27 Jul 2006 19:44

The warmest of hugs for you and positive thoughts for your Mum. Much love Mags xxx

Linda G

Linda G Report 27 Jul 2006 19:46

Had the same thing with my Mum who died 3 years ago aged 85 from breast cancer. We had many lovely times together through the years but one of my best memories is the week before she died, on a beautiful spring day, my hubbie and I took her, in her wheelchair, to a restaurant in Hall Place in Bexley and she had a little bit of a prawn sandwich and a gin and tonic and we looked in the greenhouses and she had such a lovely couple of hours. Enjoy her. You can be sad when she has gone. Love Linda xx

Jean Durant

Jean Durant Report 27 Jul 2006 19:46

Mandy, Thinking of your Mum and sending positive thoughts. Take care of yourself sweetheart. Jean x.

Unknown

Unknown Report 27 Jul 2006 19:48

warm wishes, and positive thoughts.