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Well looks like GR didn't seem a problem with our posts. Like you Ann I don't wont to fall out with anyone but would like to know why we was reported.

Wendy

Don't think you gave Vera much of a chance to be honest.

I think we gave her every chance - kept sending her messages telling her what to do - she ignored them all

just had a message from Vera and all is fine now :-D

Well all's well that ends well, but always worth bearing in mind that these boards and how GR works can be very confusing to relative newcomers to them.

Hi,

Well I know I didn't do any research for Vera just pointing out I wasn't able to help so maybe I over reacted. Don't like being reported for stating a fact. Anyway time to put this to bed.

Wendy

I'm glad this has been sorted. I can bear witness to the fact that many people struggle not only with using these boards, but what is expected of them in the way of information etc, from the messages of thanks which I receive.

Good luck with your research Vera. :-)

and could I add that I, and all the others who help out on the boards, are well aware that we should be sensitive to the struggles newcomers may have, but Vera is not a newcomer and I sent her many messages urging her to return to this thread and she never has - so I strongly object to the accusation that "we never gave her a chance"